oh yeah, and for those of you who rememver highschool:

dont you remember the "cool" kids. they were assholes, and my question.. why do these assholes get all the women. you hear the stuff about them wanting sensible men who wont take advantage of them.. but they go for the anus folk. again and again

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Perhaps I was a bit blunt, but I belive that in some way or another sex controls the way we act. Somepeople admit it, somepeople dont.

Say you are out dancing or whatever.. if you are nice to a girl its either you want to fuck her (perhaps not right away but ultimatly), you feel sorry for her,(maybe because she's too drunk and you dont want her to get in trouble, doesn't rule out that you want her )
or she is your friend (doesn't rule out that you want her).

"I completely disagree. Me, nor any of my friends, have ever said anything to a girl just to get in her pants. "
Honestly..
Perhaps that hasnt been your only goal, but if you belive that it doesn't effect what you say, you are either wrong or lying.
And btw, you have no idea what goes on in your friends heads.
As i said before, not everyone admit it..

Thinking like this doesn't make you a bad person, I consider myself to be a nice person...
Just because you are feeling and thinking one way, it doesn't mean you express it right away.

Well I shouldnt be argueing with you, because of your age, you should definitly be more experienced and wise. But anyways this is what i belive is true.

Kisses~

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Originally posted by AnotherWay83 it all depends on the situation...if both are adults, then ppl. usually dont give (as much of) a fuck...like if the woman is 30 and the guy is 40, ppl. will usually be alot easier on them than if the guy is 25 and the girl 15 guess its the whole "women crave confidence, security " blah blah blah thing

True

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Originally posted by bettsy PhloTron, Thetornado. Perhaps I was a bit blunt, but I belive that in some way or another sex controls the way we act. Somepeople admit it, somepeople dont. Say you are out dancing or whatever.. if you are nice to a girl its either you want to fuck her (perhaps not right away but ultimatly), you feel sorry for her,(maybe because she's too drunk and you dont want her to get in trouble, doesn't rule out that you want her ) or she is your friend (doesn't rule out that you want her). "I completely disagree. Me, nor any of my friends, have ever said anything to a girl just to get in her pants. " Honestly.. Perhaps that hasnt been your only goal, but if you belive that it doesn't effect what you say, you are either wrong or lying. And btw, you have no idea what goes on in your friends heads. As i said before, not everyone admit it.. Thinking like this doesn't make you a bad person, I consider myself to be a nice person... Just because you are feeling and thinking one way, it doesn't mean you express it right away. Well I shouldnt be argueing with you, because of your age, you should definitly be more experienced and wise. But anyways this is what i belive is true. Kisses~

Your view is quite cynical and you seem very sure of yourself... I used to have this mentality in the eraly stages of puberty (about 12-15), however there are whole groups of older guys who do think this way, they usually cling together and wear similar clothing, talk similarly (these things vary depending on which part of the world you are in)... So i guess my question is... what makes u so certain its guys in general and not just the guys you hang around with?

Personally I have female friends who I'm very close with, who I know are objectively attractive, ... but the thought of having anything sexual to do with them is as repulsive as the concept of fucking your sister...blyaahh
I have even helped to set them up with other guys...

PS - I am not gay...



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*sigh*
I agree I'm cynical and somewhat sure of myself. Its not convinient to be correct all the time plus its boring. If you are objective and act political correct all the time not alot of people will react to what you have to say. I'm not stupid nor(omg I rock) ignorant, I know everybody's different and special etc...

You are also right about that other thingy, I really have no idea if everybody is like this or if it's just a stupid stereotype. I can't prove it or anything. And ofcourse I get alot of opinions from the enviroment I deal with, just as everyone else does...

However, my views on this matter isn't "based" on social behavior, I think its strictly biological. That's why I'm sure of myself really..

My female friends, are either girls I dont fancy, "dont touch girls" or girls I have had an intrest in but it has cooled of... so ofcourse you can have "girl-friends" that you dont wish to have sex with.

dunno if there are more things that I need to explain in order to not come of as a dumbass to you but anyways

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Originally posted by Orbax if any of you are hearing shitty remarks about guys from canadians or Americans, it is because our culture/s is/are currently undergoing a gangster stage where sucking and fucking to a bass beat is the onllllly cool thing to do. Love and tenderness is something you MIGHT do alone, but we have the f332ing "dont hate the player hate the game" mentality going on. heres more food for thought (that was clever youll see why) developed countries are hitting puberty earlier and earlier because of our rich diets and access to proteins and fatty foods and stuff. My dad just came back from a medical expidition in Africa and he said that most kids there dont hit puberty until 16-17 in the US the average is 12. people arent teaching their kids to cope with this stuff, so you get a 12 year old girl with huge tits and a 12 year old boy who gets BFNRs (boners for no reason) and has to hide after class until it goes away sometimes sitting there staring at eachother as flashes of raw hormonal energy spark about their little heads. Their lack of judgment ignites the mixture and now you get 18 year olds whove been fuckin for 6 years. then they realize they are still fucking 12 year old minded guys because they never needed to mature to land girlfriends. So girls finally snap out of and (unfortunately without a "used goods" sticker across their forehead) and go looking for a "nice guy" whos older and didnt fall into that bullshit trap. Then he finds out shes been having sex for approximately ever. its all bullshit. I hate everyone. Im surrounded by players and whores. The only cool people I meet these days are from Hobumkin, Nowhere who dont get pop culture rammed in their faces. /rant

excellent!!

being brought up by people who lived in small towns, I still am shocked about the quantities of sexual partners a girl or boy had, then they bitch about being treated as a whore/player... no self-respect left in this part of the world.

... anyways, we think alike we should have a chat

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Originally posted by occrider Your sister? Haha don't lie, we see you leering at her in pics.

thats wat brown guys like to do, heheheheh, i wonder why they wont let u date their sisters!!

OK where do i start !!
Me and my b/f have a 6 year difference!
but my youn years i mean 12-16 i spent going out parties blah blah blah
ayways you get the point now all i want to do is spend time with the one i love sit home wach movies go out togeter with 1 or 2 friends
do something . OR just cuddle and talk !! you kan say im a little far from my age group cause im only 17 and able 2 say that in 2 or 3 years i could start family life which i wont till im done UNIVERSTY or close to finshing but i know that when im going thrugh a hard time my b/f will be done and prepared t help me out !!!
Guys my own age r way 2 imature for me!!
tere is my reason !! sorry if i ofend ayone wth the last statement but its the truth in my case not al cases!!

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Originally posted by ~*AngelsEyes*~ OK where do i start !! Me and my b/f have a 6 year difference! but my youn years i mean 12-16 i spent going out parties blah blah blah ayways you get the point now all i want to do is spend time with the one i love sit home wach movies go out togeter with 1 or 2 friends do something . OR just cuddle and talk !! you kan say im a little far from my age group cause im only 17 and able 2 say that in 2 or 3 years i could start family life which i wont till im done UNIVERSTY or close to finshing but i know that when im going thrugh a hard time my b/f will be done and prepared t help me out !!! Guys my own age r way 2 imature for me!! tere is my reason !! sorry if i ofend ayone wth the last statement but its the truth in my case not al cases!!

Unless that's you in your avatar..fuck off.. lol

Jokes, but okay, seriously...
Don't generalize now that ALL GUYS that are your age are too immature...some arn't, so don't think that you've dated every single 17 year old there is! Btw, I'm not categorizing myself in any way...!


BTW>> You're still in your young years!! lol...geeeeez!

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Originally posted by Provitex Unless that's you in your avatar..fuck off.. lol Jokes, but okay, seriously... Don't generalize now that ALL GUYS that are your age are too immature...some arn't, so don't think that you've dated every single 17 year old there is! Btw, I'm not categorizing myself in any way...! BTW>> You're still in your young years!! lol...geeeeez!

is that BT with a mullet in your avatar?

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