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Originally posted by Shook1 Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck That! Dude, if your on a message board asking this question then when she does actually go, then your going to have it on your mind the whole time. If she really likes u then she'll respect your opinion w/o a hassle. If she gives u a hard time then u have something to think about. this is just my opinion. I've been in similar situations and I'm a jealous type so I'm totally not cool w/ it unless I'm there dancing/drinking w/ her. I just dont see a point in going to a club w/o your signif. other.

Wow- you're an idiot. You said it yourself- You're the jealous type- get over it. If she is going to do something at the club she will do it anywhere- You going to lock her up and never let her out?

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Originally posted by DigiNut I think Swamper made the best point. I have one thing to add to that: if she's going with friends, tell her you want to meet the friends she's going with. And make sure they're hot. Then you've got a backup plan in case your girl doesn't know how to behave herself. P.S. the next person to say "discuss" is going to have me come to bash their head in with a garden hoe. Thanks.

Discuss

(waits for the pain)

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Originally posted by Shook1 this is just my opinion. I've been in similar situations and I'm a jealous type so I'm totally not cool w/ it unless I'm there dancing/drinking w/ her. I just dont see a point in going to a club w/o your signif. other.

xKaosx: read the first line of the paragraph! theres reasons for me putting that there so people like u dont missinterpret. I was expressing an opinion !!!!!!

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Originally posted by UWM I'd get fucking sick of a girlfriend if she had to be everywhere and out with me all the time.

hahahaaaa!!! i'd have to replace that with "boyfriend"!

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Originally posted by Shook1 xKaosx: read the first line of the paragraph! theres reasons for me putting that there so people like u dont missinterpret. I was expressing an opinion !!!!!!

well- your opinion sucks.

lol

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intelligent. But forget about this thread. Its not my girl & is stirring way too much controversy for me.

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Originally posted by DigiNut Going with friends but without b/f, ok... going alone? As Malek said, no matter how much I trusted a girl, I wouldn't trust the other guys in those clubs. There's gotta be someone to watch out for her. Not WATCH HER, but WATCH OUT FOR HER.

i used to go to ARIA all alone a lot ...but i always had malek (with his video camera ehehe!!) and fastmp3 looking out for me!! my kinda security boyz...hihi! oh yea, and THE ROCK, a former security guard, who looks like the dog from tom & jerry who'd be watching out for me from a distance! hihi!
had anyone just merely attempted to touch me they would have been dead meat! ...
yeaaa, i've had this convo with malek more than once, right malek? as a girl, just gotta know 'how' to do it!

my answer as a girl: in a relationship, trust is the main thing!

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Originally posted by disko-kandi i used to go to ARIA all alone a lot ...but i always had malek (with his video camera ehehe!!) and fastmp3 looking out for me!! my kinda security boyz...hihi! oh yea, and THE ROCK, a former security guard who'd be watching out for me from a distance! hihi! had anyone just merely attempted to touch me they would have been dead meat! ... yeaaa, i've had this convo with malek more than once, right malek? just gotta know 'how' to do it! my answer as a girl: trust is the main thing!

hehe Malek-the-bodyguard

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Originally posted by joeh When you go to a club are you just looking to pick up girls? Or are you there to enjoy the music and/or have a good time with mates.

That's a great point I was thinking about only ystd. Is it me or is the trend in clubs that play Trance is that it's not your typical meat market? I remember going to club like Exit and Sound Factory - fuqing gross! By the time I would go home I would be all greased up by some meathead's sweat and hair gel that also serves as a helmet. While clubs still are great places to hook up, it just seems like lately ppl are going to clubs mostly to chill and dance, not to hook up.

One more thing - there are bunch of clubs in Phily, yet when you drive by those clubs right before our 2am closing time you see most arests take place in R&B clubs, rather than trance clubs. You got more fights in those places. I actually cannot recall a single time when I saw a fight break out at a club that plays trance. yet our R&B/Hip Hop clubs get a weekly dosage of fights, stabbing and ocasional shoot-outs...

Bump into someone at a trance event - most of the time everyone is friendly... Bump into someone at HipHop/R&B club and you got yourself a fight, "What da fuk is yo problem, muthafukah? Watch yo fukin step, biatch!" and so on...

just my H.O.

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Originally posted by DaveSaenz Alah Akbar!!!!

If you hear this yelled loudly in a public place, chances are this is the last thing you will be hearing before meeting your maker, whoever that might be...

BTW, off-topic, I have a solution to whole middle-eastern suicide bombings: Make Israeli public transportation the only transportation that busses palestinian children to schools, make walking to school illegal. Offer palestinians free tables at markets and so on....

Ok, that would be just mean, wouldn't it????

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Originally posted by Moongoose One night i went out with my friend to a club (bussines not pleasure ) becouse my GF wanted to see a DJ i didnt really like. So anyway we are at that club and to my surprise i find my GF there (100km away from where she was supposed to be) kissing one of her girlfriends. I watched them from the balcony for a few minutes then thought "what the heck" and went down and joined the fun Just 2 bad that the meeting my friend had with the manager of the club didnt take long becouse i ahd to go just when things were getting interesting So i say trust your GF and let her have a little fun

Right after you left, she strated kissing me... My buddy also said he got some... hell, everyone in the club did - where'd you go???

j/k

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Originally posted by DigiNut Meh... I don't know. Even if the girl goes for nothing but the music and doesn't let any other guys near her, don't think there isn't still a possibility of her getting hit with rohypnol or something. Going with friends but without b/f, ok... going alone? As Malek said, no matter how much I trusted a girl, I wouldn't trust the other guys in those clubs. There's gotta be someone to watch out for her. Not WATCH HER, but WATCH OUT FOR HER. Can we see the difference here? I mean, what if your girl told you that she felt like taking a walk alone around the ghetto part of town at 3 am, would you be OK with that? I just don't think going to a club all alone is very safe for any girl, unless she's meeting people outside or immediately inside, and no that's not saying they're "weak", it's saying that there are frickin' criminals in there that won't take no for an answer. And if you explain to your girlfriend that you are concerned about her safety, not her conduct, I would expect her to be OK with that. If she's not, then that might be good reason to suspect an alterior motive for her going. Oh one last thing... mec, you never really made it clear whether or not you were invited. Did you want to go with and she flat-out refused? Or does she just want to go to a place you're not interested in?

Excellent point, BTW.... Watch french movie "Irreversible" with Monica Belluci - drives this point home like a muthafukka... be ready to puke ur guts out tho...

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