He's not bitter, he's being realistic. Everything he said is bang-on for the most part!
Thankfully someone realizes that women who seem "cold" in clubs and bars are not bitches, but rather just being on the defense against random creeps.
It's sad - there are a whole lot of good guys out there in the scene, but there have been so many more who, by being an asshole, have ruined the credibility for every man trying to approach a woman.
Originally posted by Dr. Z
#1: Get out of your pants.
Don't let the meat stick think for you.
Nov-10-2003 00:36
Vivid Boy
TA's GodFather
Registered: Sep 2001
Location: T.O
maybe thats just u....i dunno not alot of girls act that way with me...the ones that due usually get a good ol fuck you
Nov-10-2003 00:36
Skipper
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: May 2002
Location:
quote:
Originally posted by Vivid Boy
maybe thats just u....i dunno not alot of girls act that way with me...the ones that due usually get a good ol fuck you
you sound like one of the guys that has ruined the reputation of all the nice guys out there.
Nov-10-2003 00:38
Trancewave
Anti Ayumi Alliance
Registered: Aug 2001
Location: Toronto
Ok i just want to say one thing. I'm not gay or anything, but you look like Leonardo Decaprio. Pretty good lookin' if you ask me.
You should have no problems meetin' women. Which brings me back to my original point. It sounds like you're a decent guy, that's the problem
Nov-10-2003 01:04
wienerschnitzel
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: May 2003
Location: out west
Re: Re: Re: Re: My Confusion ( Girls )
quote:
Originally posted by 'mju:zik
how would you know? i never wanted to pick you up
true, im probably not your type. I made that assumption based on your "most of you are dorks" thread, along with some other quality posts you have made.
Nov-10-2003 01:05
Vivid Boy
TA's GodFather
Registered: Sep 2001
Location: T.O
quote:
Originally posted by Skipper
you sound like one of the guys that has ruined the reputation of all the nice guys out there.
actually im not...but if a girl is going to act like a bitch im not just gonna turn away with my head in between my legs and pout...im gonna rip at them right back and shiw them who wears the pants...
Nov-10-2003 01:41
igottaknow
PerfectTeeth R4 Dinosaurs
Registered: Feb 2001
Location: The Future
quote:
Originally posted by Vivid Boy
actually im not...but if a girl is going to act like a bitch im not just gonna turn away with my head in between my legs and pout...im gonna rip at them right back and shiw them who wears the pants...
now i know why girls cary pepper spray (or should i say vivid repellent)
Wait, Vivid is right. Just because she is a girl means she can get away with whatever she wants? (ie being snobbish and suckering the guy into buying her booze and using him? Uh NO). I mean it's either you stand up for yourself and have some self respect when a woman, or anyone tries to use you, or you just stand there and let them abuse the fact that you're a nice person. It's like some vicous cycle. The man treats the woman like crap who in turn gets all snobbish and then decides to use all other guys at a club for her own uses. Then those guys won't stand for it and tell the girl where to go and end up looking like asses? Bahh. I'm confused enough over all this...I figure I just party and enjoy life and stuff will fall into place whenver.
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Nov-10-2003 03:53
AmbiguousBliss
Ein großes Bier, bitte.
Registered: Dec 2002
Location: Brasil/Canada
quote:
Originally posted by Endlesswave
Wait, Vivid is right. Just because she is a girl means she can get away with whatever she wants? (ie being snobbish and suckering the guy into buying her booze and using him? Uh NO). I mean it's either you stand up for yourself and have some self respect when a woman, or anyone tries to use you, or you just stand there and let them abuse the fact that you're a nice person. It's like some vicous cycle. The man treats the woman like crap who in turn gets all snobbish and then decides to use all other guys at a club for her own uses. Then those guys won't stand for it and tell the girl where to go and end up looking like asses? Bahh. I'm confused enough over all this...I figure I just party and enjoy life and stuff will fall into place whenver.
Basically, Chris, what goes around comes around, as Vivid illustrated earlier.
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Nov-10-2003 03:55
brunette
viaggiatore
Registered: Feb 2002
Location: Europe
haha so much fuss over such a simple thing..
it's all just a game..
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