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Originally posted by DJ Rat 187 I still haven't told her , I just need to do it though, no excuses, maybe I need to be under the influence in order to get the confidence to tell her.

I know exactly how you feel, in the same situation as you now. I've got her email addy and if I don't initiate something then I got the next 10 weeks without seeing her, which wouldn't be very nice.

Sorry if you've already said, but are you mates with her? You could always suggest getting together to do something cos your other mates have each gone on holiday (in my case true )

I'd just go for it... you can't have any regrets if you just ask

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Originally posted by USMC_Greg Just ask her for a blowjob. Teenage girls are just dieing to suck a dick now-a-days. My brother started getting his sucked when he was 13. He's still in high school and girls can't wait to get on their knees for him.

Best advice so far.

But seriously. Just tell her straight. Would you be rather friends with her and not know if the feelings are mutual or not be friends with her but know for sure? Any considerate guy, after thinking about it, would pick the second.

You never know, so stop torturing your mind and heart and go for it. If you don't have enough courage then drink red bull or do the note suggestion, mentioned previously. Although, telling her in person has better effect.

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Originally posted by DJ Rat 187 that's what I think might have happened, I think she might be pissed because I never made a move, but if I do tell her I won't tell her everything because it will probably freak her out (like some people said).Oh ya and to answer some questions, she is single and I do talk to her, we're pretty good friends, it's not like I admire her from a distance or anything

I live a thousand miles away and it's crystal clear to me YOU'RE ON THE FRIENDS LADDER. Sorry to have to tell you, so many guys read the slightest gesture a girl makes as confirmation that she loves you. Anyone want to take me up on the bet? Ask her out because nothing would make me happier if I was wrong.

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No one has ever died from the word "no". So go for it.

grow a pair, will ya

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Originally posted by callme I've always meant to ask this....who the fuck are you? I mean i have never heard of you or the 5 friends you have on your myspace. Official info : chokeonit

It's easy to say go for it online but in person its a million times harder.

My advice is to get one of your good friends to ask one of her friends what her true feelings are. Or even have your friend talk to her in person.

That way if your friend reports back that she likes you, you can safely make your move.

If not you avoid embarresment, and the friendship is saved.

Good luck mate whatever ya decide to do.

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This is the best resource on dating that has ever been created. I also recommend it.

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Originally posted by Spartan My advice is to get one of your good friends to ask one of her friends what her true feelings are. Or even have your friend talk to her in person. That way if your friend reports back that she likes you, you can safely make your move.

That was cool in like 6th grade.

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Originally posted by UWM That was cool in like 6th grade.

It's def. not the cool way to go about it, I agree.
However it does solve the problem at hand.

It makes you look like a total tool either way. It's pretty much lose-lose in the real world.

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Originally posted by Spartan It's def. not the cool way to go about it, I agree. However it does solve the problem at hand.

and maybe after lunch they can go make out by the bike rack...gotta get back before the bell rings.

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Originally posted by UWM That was cool in like 6th grade.

I agree he should instead ask her to play rock/paper/scissors. If she wins he doesn't ask her out, but if he win he can ask her out. The only thing I leave up to him to decide is whether they play once or best out of three.

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