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| quote: | Originally posted by Iyrlk
to TyBy7996:
you are feeling feelings that you will not have often. what you feel is great. however it is not love. love happens when two ppl build it. life isnt the hollywood type "love in first sight". your feelings towards her is most likely true. however no matter how much you crave, need, want, lust after her, without her interest in you you'll need to start slowly forget her. ive had feelings towards a girl but it passed away after a long while. listen to songs that make you feel better, remind you of her, remind you of your passion. instead of fueling your passion it will make your let go easier.
when you later meet someone who you will fall in love with, and she too, you will realize how important a relationship is once you commit yourself and finally realize how important it is to recognize and realize things when you put yourself in her or her bf's position. (p.s. treat her how you would like to be treated. unless you are a machosist or a necrophiliac i doubt that will get you in the wrong direction)
stalking is not the way.. making her feel as if your stalking her is not the way. that will lead you into your own fall. i know many ppl who wouldnt mind laying their hands on stalkers. its not a pretty idea. its not worth it. i know its hard, your feelings towards her very strong. but unless you and her can build a relationship nothing will happen. you blew away your chance the moment she felt you stalking her. take ppl's advice and keep yourself busy with other things even if you cant help thinking about her.
to other ppl:
ppl who suggested him go for it, her bf's out of town, you might be able to treat her better, please shut the fuck up and be more considerate. do you have any clue what you are saying? how would you like to have your bf/gf getting hit on while you are away for a while? dont you ppl know how much a relationship means to a couple? if you had a shitty relationship its YOUR fault. not everyone is like you. if she decides her bf is someone she shouldnt be with, let her decide then give her time to recover from that relationship. DONT start hitting on her during her relationship with her bf. i feel strong about this because i have a girl that i care so much about and know what it would feel like. i'd rather torture ppl who are irresponsible and think those thoughts than TyBy7996. it is evident TyBy7996 doesnt know how to effectively learn how to build a relationship with someone he's infatuated with. that needs to be changed. not fueled.
/end rant
and good for you two ur dream grl and your bf. im glad that some ppl are having mature relationships. i understand how you two feel about this situation. my condolences. |
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