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| quote: | Originally posted by trancechaos
lets face facts, its fun to pick up girls in a club but its not the best place to meet women, firstly they will have the idea that all you want to do is get into thier pants so they naturaly have a fire wall around them.
if they dont have a wall around them and are good to go, that would either mean that they are easy and you are just the flavour of the week and nothing could ever come out of your encounter or it could mean that they find you very special but the latter is rarely ever the case.
generally when i go out i just go out to have a good time and if i happen to meet someone then thats a plus. but to actually go out with the intension to just hit on girls can actually ruin your night if you dont succeed to score.
my female friends at times have thier nights ruined just coz of creepy guys bugging in clubs, and i just dont want to fall into that category, i'd rather be the guy that doesn't hit on girls in clubs then be the guy that pisses them off. that way you get a better vibe in the club with everyone out to have a good time.
even if you do get a number, its rare that anything big will happen afterwards, you might end up hooking up with the chick a couple of times and maybe even nailing her but after a while the whole mystery and fun of it begins to die out. i guess it just depends what one is looking for.
for you guys, there are two questions you need to ask when it comes to hitting on girls.
do i want the respect of that girl?
or
do i want to just get into her pants and come out looking like a male whore?
getting the respect of the girl does not mean not hitting on her, by that i just mean the manner of aproach. randomly grabbing a girl is not a good way to get her respect. aproaching her nicely and beginning a nice conversation is one way.
no doubt there are many decent girls in clubs and there are many decent guys as well....its a pity that there are those that give both a bad name.
i wonder how things would be if chicks were the ones that hit on guys???
i dont know if i made any sense, its all just personal opinion and hope someone agrees with me. |
oh, man... 
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