gosh im a fuckin mess...2breakups in one year. One bitch gives me an eternal gift...then this girl is neglectful to a truly nice guy that I was towards her...and doesn't forgive me for one mistake I made.
Maybe she was hiding from the fact that the txtmsg was right...she was waiting for a small mistake..

Only thing Im thinking of right now at this point is a NOOSE

If you're meeting her, don't read the letter. It won't make any difference. Just see if she can level with you.

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Originally posted by Ondrayce If you're meeting her, don't read the letter. It won't make any difference. Just see if she can level with you.

level?

explain pls

don't read her that letter. That one guy is right, it makes you sound a little too attached. the thing is, if you want to make her feel guilty do it but don't overdo it. Instead of saying "i was going to take you to spongebob and eat pie" say something like "i'm tired of going out of my way for you and you fucking me over". Don't tell her the things you were going to do for her just let her know shes acting like a bitch.

Don't expect to get anywhere with her now. I am not being an asshole, that is just the truth of the matter. You can either break this off by keeping your dignity and telling her shes a bitch or you can be chumped and beg her back.

And the whole story about the soldier is overkill. if you are going to read her the letter omit that. This is the best advice i can give you.

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oh god, dont be an idiot.

Some people have it worse than you. *cough*me*cough*

Just go find someone else, preferably a hot and easy whore, fuck her senseless, and you will be A-Ok.

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Originally posted by Coup Vlad wins. Flawless victory.

Dont go, salvage whatever dignity you have left, or if ya want go hand her your other testicle.

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My Space

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Originally posted by callme I've always meant to ask this....who the fuck are you? I mean i have never heard of you or the 5 friends you have on your myspace. Official info : chokeonit

Hold her tightly and look her in the eyes and say

"Baby- I want to do you in da butt"


Seriously though- Do yourself a favor walk away and dont talk to her. Drama Queens like that will come frothing back in no time and you'll either not want her back by then or you will and she'll realize.

Right now you're lookin kinda pathetic. Sorry.
When you look at it from outside the box you realize how
lame the whole situation is and wonder wtf you're thinking.

(Not trying to be mean- just the truth)

I've been there too - no worries :P

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I've never felt alone... 'Till I met you

That really was a very nice letter, but as UWM said, it's sort of unfair for you to compare yourself with a soldier whose pregnant wife was shot in the head.

The value on a relationship isn't necessarily quntified by time, alone. It's whatever value has been placed on the time you two had together - 2 months may not seem very long to a lot of people, but remember, there are marriages out there where, even after 30 years together, the people still don't really love one another. It's about appreciating the time spent together for what it was - it may have been very sweet, but it's important to accept when it's truly over. Ask yourself, did you really love her? Or were you more in love with the idea of her? What about just the idea of being loved? These seem to be the most common points of error that work themselves out towards the inevitable end of any relationship, as most people are mistaken at the time who or what they've truly invested their feelings in (myself included).

I'm sorry you got dumped, and I'm sorry she didn't appreciate you, but, in retropsect, was she truly worth the investment if she didn't feel the same way? You may have at one time thought so, and you still might, but accept the truth when it comes and takes a big shit on your face - to ignore it would be to go through life...shitfaced.

Then again, that's probably exactly what you need right now. Go crawl into a bottle of liquor somewhere, and don't send the letter to the undeserving!

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There are more things in heaven and earth, Horatio,
Than are dreamt of in your philosophy.

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Originally posted by speedracer_mec level? explain pls

Maybe she has a fairly good reason for dumping you. Maybe you turned into something else during these last two months other than what attracted her to you when you were just friends. And maybe a drawn out, heartfelt(I'll give you), though sappy love letter will dig you into a deeper hole.

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This is Bush's fault Speedracer, remember that.

Find out her credit / debit card number and order some hookers.

Ok, those last two posts were actually pretty funny.

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There are more things in heaven and earth, Horatio,
Than are dreamt of in your philosophy.