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Originally posted by Jayx1 Pretty valid question I'd say. Would you take his family name or keep yours? If yes which name would your kids have? And then which name would your grandkids have?

i have three kids and the first has my last name and the second has the fathers and my third has both! So it can be a complex situ- if both parents are from two different cultures. If there's a decision to be made i wish you better luck than i had!

id keep my last, i dont want kids so that answers that question. hypothetically speaking,,,, if i did have a kid,, the last name would depend, i think i have a pretty good last name... but if the person i marry has a nicer one then,, theyd get that one.

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Originally posted by lipstick id keep my last, i dont want kids so that answers that question. hypothetically speaking,,,, if i did have a kid,, the last name would depend, i think i have a pretty good last name... but if the person i marry has a nicer one then,, theyd get that one.

same

and pretty much ANY last name is better than mine



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Originally posted by dance2dabeat I really don't know if I would.... I mean I am the ONLY Kelly Simas in this world.... I kinda like that...my last name is not common at all!

Me too! LOL..I'm the only Angelina Mandol you'll EVER know...guaranteed. It's nice to be unique. Which you are, Kelly! In a good way of course

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Originally posted by Floorwhore do a google search

I googled my name and all you find is stuff about Angelina and Brad.....meh!

But I'm a traditional gal....I'd take the man's name. That's how I feel now anyway....who's to say how I'll feel when the time comes...

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Originally posted by Jayx1 no way! Its important to keep tradition and family name. Id maybe be willing to comprimise by having her keep her last name but definately not with the kids. No hyphens or funny stuff there.

exactly, and its a big compromise.

since when do women have rights ?!? (hahahah ok its a joke don't flame me! )

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wouldn't it be nice for your son's kids to have your surname? (if you took the husbands name)

for me I'd prefer she takes mine, but the kids pretty muc hhave to

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Originally posted by bass drive for the women wouldn't you like your grandchild to have your surname? (if you took the husbands name)

I would think that would be my children's decision as to how they want to name their kids.

im also old fashioned and would expect to take my husbands last name.

My nephew took both, his mothers first, then his fathers
its Bryce Anthony Giroux-Brasz

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Originally posted by chanoa same and pretty much ANY last name is better than mine -andrea-

And whut would said last name be habibi

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Originally posted by Tordan I agree. As for my wife's last name, I'd rather she took mine so my parents don't throw a fit. But I have no problems with her hyphenating as long as the kids have my last name.

Pretty much my opinion.

Actually in some cultures, (I know in Korean culture) wives keep their maiden name. I don't know why some cultures put tremendous importance on wives taking their husbands' names. After all, it is the love that is most imporant, no?

And those of you who said depends on whether the name sounds nice or not, do you not think that's kinda shallow? Are you going to be a cooler person because you have a cool sounding last name?

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Originally posted by chinamon not true. i say "ugh" but i am a tranny.

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Originally posted by kotsy lol colour me retarded

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Originally posted by Carney i pitty the girl that gets stuck with my last name

hah, ditto...actually, I'd just feel really bad for her.