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Originally posted by Slylee i think it's safe to say i'm like the most sarcastic/jokeful person on these boards (or one of the most). but hey, once in a while, i gotta draw the line somewhere! sinatra i hope you're right! i definitely got a little nervous after i sent the email because i hope he gets it that i'm not trying to tell him i don't like him...i stressed a lot that i'm nuts about him but that i'm just at a point in my life where i have to get some things going for myself first. school starts again in oct. and i signed up for more classes than usual because i didn't take any summer classes, so i'm gonna have like no life come october...and i'm moving in with a roommate soon, so i have to save money and not go out as much...i JUST got out of a 2 year relationship...i mean he has to understand all of this and if he likes me enough, he should respect that. anyway, i shared my letter with jason who swears he is a lot like this guy and he said my email was very clear in getting my point across, but sweet too, and that he'll probably like it. he didn't call me last night or email me back yet...so i don't know. i was thinking of driving down to his place late at night on wednesday and putting some flowers on his car or something so he's all surprised in the morning

Well, at least you realize you have to establish yourself first in order to obtain lifes other pleasures, such as being in relationship. Its difficult having a life throughout a week and then suddenly trying to have a relationship on the weekend when you're so busy with school, work etc. However, if I were in your shoes, I would have at least told the person face to face; it shows respect and that you aren't afraid of the situation. Not that what you did was horribly wrong, I would have just done things different.

I recently went through something similar with a friend but I am already in a relationship, so I had to tell her face to face that nothing would happen because I was taken and very much happy. It was hard and I was afraid of the way she would have reacted but, in all fairness it made things easier because we were able to talk about openly and not hold anything back.

By the way, you might want to call the guy! If he is like me, which by the sounds of things is true, he will want you to call him or suprise him by showing up or something. The smallest things like getting a text message can really help.

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Originally posted by Sinatra Well, at least you realize you have to establish yourself first in order to obtain lifes other pleasures, such as being in relationship. Its difficult having a life throughout a week and then suddenly trying to have a relationship on the weekend when you're so busy with school, work etc. However, if I were in your shoes, I would have at least told the person face to face; it shows respect and that you aren't afraid of the situation. Not that what you did was horribly wrong, I would have just done things different. I recently went through something similar with a friend but I am already in a relationship, so I had to tell her face to face that nothing would happen because I was taken and very much happy. It was hard and I was afraid of the way she would have reacted but, in all fairness it made things easier because we were able to talk about openly and not hold anything back. By the way, you might want to call the guy! If he is like me, which by the sounds of things is true, he will want you to call him or suprise him by showing up or something. The smallest things like getting a text message can really help.

Well yea I HAVE been assuring him of my feelings and where I stand in person when we’re together…I was just sort of reiterating all of that in a letter. I told him to give me a call or please write back after he’s considered what I said (about him thinking about whether or not he can handle things the way they are going to be for a while). I was thinking of showing up at his place Wednesday night if I don’t hear from him by then. I’ll pick some flowers on the way or something.

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone

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Originally posted by Slylee I'll pick some flowers on the way or something.

Guys don't want flowers. If he does, he's gay. Buy him a 6 pack or something.

he doesn't really drink. lol

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone

WTF, are you gonna tell me next that he doesn't watch sports?

buy him fried chicken and a piece of watermelon....


.......i mean....he's black, right?

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buy him fried chicken and a piece of watermelon....


.......i mean....he's black, right?

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yea he does...he's not a fanatic though...he likes college basketball.

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone

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Originally posted by Slylee Well yea I HAVE been assuring him of my feelings and where I stand in person when we’re together…I was just sort of reiterating all of that in a letter. I told him to give me a call or please write back after he’s considered what I said (about him thinking about whether or not he can handle things the way they are going to be for a while). I was thinking of showing up at his place Wednesday night if I don’t hear from him by then. I’ll pick some flowers on the way or something.

Thats nice.. But yea, don't buy him flowers. Thats not something a guy really wants. Trust me! Just showing up at his doorstep should be good enough.

Well, good luck to you. And hopefully he realizes that this all for good, because rushing into things isn't ever easy.

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i like watermelon. and friend chiken. im not black

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Originally posted by nchs09 i like watermelon. and friend chiken. im not black

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