Registered: Dec 2005
Location: Back in Mississauga... *cries*
quote:
Originally posted by yankeeBaby
Question #2: Who thinks cheating starts as soon as you cross that "line" (ie: flirting with the intention to have sex, kissing, etc), and who thinks cheating= sex/forepley, etc?
I think the fine lines of cheating is crossed when a person is always thinking about and wanting to spend more time in the presence of a person who isn't their significant other....
If it's not that emotionally deep, then I think even just kissing or flirting with the intention of hooking up is cheating. Cheating is such a strong word for that but it is what it is and it'd definielty make a person feel betrayed, foolish and just livid.
Mar-31-2006 04:44
FunkyCrew
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Registered: Feb 2006
Location: Soul Shakin'
quote:
Originally posted by yankeeBaby
now THAT I definately don't believe....seeing as I have been tempted many times myself (but never have).
I think that it more human nature to be attracted to more than one person, but I also think that most people are choosy...i mean you ARE technically putting your relationship on the line, so I would assume that if you were to take it this far that one would pick a worthwhile candidate......imo
+1!
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Mar-31-2006 04:45
Yohan
Champion of Deep&Nu-disco
Registered: Jan 2004
Location: Kitchener, Ont, Soviet Canuckistan
quote:
Originally posted by yankeeBaby
Question #2: Who thinks cheating starts as soon as you cross that "line" (ie: flirting with the intention to have sex, kissing, etc), and who thinks cheating= sex/forepley, etc?
The 'line' is quite blurry and tends to change from couple to couple.
Some have not even look at another girl/boy policy. Some are swingers.
I guess its when you've done something that your partner would consider hurtful.
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I seriously know at LEAST a handful+ of men who have cheated repeatedly one their girls, and the weird thing is, is that they CLAIM to love them, and treat them like gold the other 99% of the time...they expain that its "just sex"
Originally posted by chinamon
not true. i say "ugh"
but i am a tranny.
quote:
Originally posted by kotsy
lol colour me retarded
Mar-31-2006 04:45
naillil
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Dec 2005
Location: Back in Mississauga... *cries*
quote:
Originally posted by yankeeBaby
*Also an important note: the new stats on HIV in US: The #1 increase in HIV cases are married women ages 40-50....because so many husbands cheat (with both men and women), and women who are unsuspecting sleep unprotected with their "seemingly" faithful men. I learned that in my grad class the other day...SCARY!!!
This is by far the sadest part of it all - so what is worse than cheating - not owning up to it and continuing to lie about it and put your "loved" one at serious risk
Mar-31-2006 04:47
JoJoJo
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Registered: Jan 2006
Location: Toronto
quote:
Originally posted by FunkyGroove
actually being able to stand up to a temptation is what differentiates us from animals
I agree and thats what makes someone a decent person too
You guys got Temptation island over there?? how embarassing!!!
Mar-31-2006 04:48
TRANCEEEE
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: May 2004
Location: Toronto
- don't rush into a relationship
- make up your mind, "do you want to settle or else?"
- if you're going for ass, get a whore
- stupids mate with stupids
Mar-31-2006 04:49
FunkyCrew
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Registered: Feb 2006
Location: Soul Shakin'
quote:
Originally posted by JoJoJo
I agree and thats what makes someone a decent person too
You guys got Temptation island over there?? how embarassing!!!
lol yeh that show is fucked up
i actually confess i was tempted very strongly twice, and was able to resist it in the end
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Mar-31-2006 04:50
JoJoJo
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Registered: Jan 2006
Location: Toronto
it was! especially the aussie version! thats why im coming to canada in 3 weeks... to get away from bad aussie broadcasting!
Same I was in a relationship for 6 years I was tempted and never acted on it.. its natural to be tempted its how to deal with it that matters. Pity I cant say the same about him haha
Mar-31-2006 04:53
FunkyCrew
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Registered: Feb 2006
Location: Soul Shakin'
quote:
Originally posted by JoJoJo
it was! especially the aussie version! thats why im coming to canada in 3 weeks... to get away from bad aussie broadcasting!
Same I was in a relationship for 6 years I was tempted and never acted on it.. its natural to be tempted its how to deal with it that matters. Pity I cant say the same about him haha
hehe
i just got my mates to look after me if i ever got drunk in a company of hawt guys and all but i mean it wasn't like "omg i gotta bang him asap or i'll die"
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Mar-31-2006 04:56
Yohan
Champion of Deep&Nu-disco
Registered: Jan 2004
Location: Kitchener, Ont, Soviet Canuckistan
quote:
Originally posted by JoJoJo
it was! especially the aussie version! thats why im coming to canada in 3 weeks... to get away from bad aussie broadcasting!
Oh trust me. The Aussie version was WAY better than the one we had here.
Originally posted by chinamon
not true. i say "ugh"
but i am a tranny.
quote:
Originally posted by kotsy
lol colour me retarded
Mar-31-2006 04:57
yankeeBaby
Keepin it real....
Registered: Feb 2005
Location: Upper West Side NYC
quote:
Originally posted by ** TigerLily **
This is by far the sadest part of it all - so what is worse than cheating - not owning up to it and continuing to lie about it and put your "loved" one at serious risk
yup, and to add to that: its one thing to cheat on a girlfriend but its a WHOLE other story to cheat on your wife (and family, since it affects them as well).
I am not very religious, but someday, when I am married, I would want my man to honor his vows, and if he can't go by them, then we should just co-habitat and skip the damn ceremony LOL
...plus you can't fuck with your children's lives like that, its not worth it for a piece of ass, and that goes for women too!!
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Mar-31-2006 04:57
Hantu
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Oct 2002
Location: Always working......
quote:
Originally posted by JoJoJo
its natural to be tempted its how to deal with it that matters.
Exactly, there is nothing wrong with being tempted by another. But once it's goes past temptation, then it's gone too far.