Registered: May 2005
Location: Miami, United States
quote:
Originally posted by Fl@k Monkey
i think the best way to go about a long distance relationship is to have a plan worked out as to when it can stop being a long distance relationship. Having a plan worked out - With a date as to when things will happen + and having logical resources (eg: enough money and knowledge to make sure it can happen)
If you can sort that out, you will cut alot of the stress because both of you will see that things WILL happen and it isint just time being wasted on 'could happens'
by plan worked out you mean when visits will happen or when she will come down??
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Sep-13-2006 14:40
Nrg2Nfinit
ItaloDiscoAddict
Registered: Sep 2001
Location: Ottawa
quote:
Originally posted by PaperBag831
i feel like if it were meant to be, aka the perfect relationship, then both would be 100% committed and not wanting to touch anyone else. And in such cases, you shouldn't have to wonder if they like you as much.. you would know.
haha lol was i the only one that found this hilarious?
Sep-13-2006 14:45
Fl@k Monkey
Senior tranceaddict
Registered: Feb 2005
Location: Brisbane, QLD
quote:
Originally posted by hiram
by plan worked out you mean when visits will happen or when she will come down??
Both if you can, if it means just visiting eachother at first and then working out when you can both be together - Do that. At least then you can see eachother on some sort of basis and that will only make the both of you want eachother more.
But definately, try and plan long term (eg: when you guys can be together and not have to say goodbye again - ASAP)
Sep-13-2006 14:59
Cosmic Fur
Debbie Downer
Registered: Jan 2005
Location: Mississauga, Canada
Why bother with the stress and problems of a long-distance relationship when you can just as easily find a girl you really like closer to you?
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Sep-13-2006 15:27
Fl@k Monkey
Senior tranceaddict
Registered: Feb 2005
Location: Brisbane, QLD
quote:
Originally posted by Cosmic Fur
Why bother with the stress and problems of a long-distance relationship when you can just as easily find a girl you really like closer to you?
Some people go out with others because they have actual feelings for them and they are worth the effort.
Sep-13-2006 15:31
weymouth
aka Poe
Registered: May 2003
Location: Delaware
A couple long distance relationships and one nearby works great! You never get that movie situation where you have a date at the same time with two different girls and you have to act like you are going to the bathroom but really going to the other girl's table.
Sep-13-2006 15:40
DarkAngel
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Registered: Nov 2002
Location: .
quote:
Originally posted by Cosmic Fur
Why bother with the stress and problems of a long-distance relationship when you can just as easily find a girl you really like closer to you?
A lot of times it's hard to find someone you're really compatible with in your nearby area. I found something here that reminded me of an LDR that I once had....back in '01......and I all have to say is.......the feelings were there, but the physical comfort and necessities weren't....makes an LDR so incredibly difficult.
