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| quote: | Originally posted by Zeiter
abused children who became parents and abused their own children? |
Sadly, that is how it is in most cases. Most of the times when you are physically abused it leads to psychological problems. It all the depends on how tha person deals with it later on... Ive known several people that have been abused by their parents, and believe it or not they are very open about it, and from what I understand and oberved they have no major psychological problems, except for some cases they dont want other people to touch them, that is because of the physical abused they had. That is the only trauma, imo its a bs one compared to other psychological problems that can be worse.
But what I find the most interesting, is that they did acknowledge that their parents were fuked up, they tried to approach them later on in life, they expressed how they felt about them, and then tried to create an adult to adult relationship with them. Some were able to do that, others werent. But from my opinion that was very brave for them to do, once I asked them, after all that shyt that happened between you and your family why did you try to reach closer to them? Their response, I was thankful to see their fuk ups and so I wont commit that when Im a father.
As I said, it all depends on the person, and how he deals with it.
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sorry
