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Originally posted by Renzo The reason dating coaches disturb Avana is because she thinks these dating coaches manipulate women, when that could not be further from the truth. These coaches are about helping improve the men and their self-confidence.

Well there is certainly the misconception that all of these coaches are the Cj Macky ( magnolia character) type

When in reality these coaches work on so many other important things for example: Improving your social skills.

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all i am saying is i know a guy who was the 'lead instructor', and he was a huge creep. some of the things he told my group of friends about his philosophy, his attitudes about women, and the reasons why he does it bothered a bunch of us. and whenever i hear anyone talking about stuff like that i guess i see his face in a snake oil salesmans suit i'm not going to rip on all dating coaches, just the creeps. and that comment struck me as not very authentic.

this is what i saw:

premise: acquire beautiful woman.

advice: treat her as if she's not an object to you and that her looks don't matter, even though the whole stated premise you want to get with the woman is because she is beautiful.

come on, that just comes across as manipulative...

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I really don't think that any of us TAs knows Bar personally so we only have her pictures to go by and she's pretty close to perfection in most of those pictures...

but to say that she is average is preposterous..

I mean, your girlfriend is WAY above average and still not at Bars standard (and I'm only going by the one picture that I've seen so if you wanna change my opinion, more pics pls... Lol)

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Originally posted by chinamon chinamon is INCH MOAN. LOL so fitting.

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Originally posted by nefardec oh the irony in this yep, women are sticks of butter. so an object of reachable heights, that's great. that's how it starts... but seriously, the shoes are blahhhhhh central (possibly only interesting if they are made out of recycled dildos, as they seem to be), and the dress is like a weird-fitting monotone knit cheerleader uniform entirely made by grandmothers in a factory somewhere. considered against the constellation of celebrities and luminary, beautiful women in the world, this girl seems quite average. i guess they call that 'girl next door', and the appeal of that is probably that the fantasy seems easier to attain. i don't understand the obsession people have with 'perfection' of beauty. there are so many unpredictable, multifarious, wonderful qualities that make someone beautiful. in fact i think the most beautiful people tend to step outside of the stereotype, which is what makes their beauty noteworthy and superlative.

I'm on your side btw, but ^ is what I call the fat chick ramble

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Originally posted by VDub I really don't think that any of us TAs knows Bar personally so we only have her pictures to go by and she's pretty close to perfection in most of those pictures... but to say that she is average is preposterous..

average for a 'hot girl' thread. just my opinion, beauty is totally subjective. i just take issue with the idea of 'perfection' for that reason.

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Originally posted by VDub I mean, your girlfriend is WAY above average and still not at Bars standard (and I'm only going by the one picture that I've seen so if you wanna change my opinion, more pics pls... Lol)

i couldn't care less about changing your opinion. it's obvious you have different taste in women anyway, so what's the point? no way in hell you're going to troll me for her pics LOL. this thread is not about my gf, so let's move along. but suffice to say, she is above the bar.

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Originally posted by Brizzo "It's all gone Pete Tong" is actually a phrase in Europe, England I believe. Pretty sure that's where Pete Tong got his DJ name from as well.

The infamous Rojam ID. 14 years, 9 months and counting...

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Originally posted by wotyzoid No need to get snarky, I just think you criticized a perfectly sane sounding opinion for no apparent reason at all. Not very nice.

Tell me about it. Nefardec would make an ideal feminist with that type of attitude.

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Originally posted by nefardec i don't understand the obsession people have with 'perfection' of beauty. there are so many unpredictable, multifarious, wonderful qualities that make someone beautiful. in fact i think the most beautiful people tend to step outside of the stereotype, which is what makes their beauty noteworthy and superlative.

and i completely agree with this

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Originally posted by nefardec no way in hell you're going to troll me for her pics LOL.

Lol... Do I get a decent grade for effort at least???

And yowza that's a bad shot....

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Originally posted by chinamon chinamon is INCH MOAN. LOL so fitting.

average man, average. Its great how tons of you can be fooled with a little bit of photoshop. I mean she's probably only a B cup. C maybe. And the ass isn't fantastic. could use a little more voluptuousness.

I mean she has a total dogface in the picture avana posted.. cmon!

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Originally posted by nefardec all i am saying is i know a guy who was the 'lead instructor', and he was a huge creep. some of the things he told my group of friends about his philosophy, his attitudes about women, and the reasons why he does it bothered a bunch of us. and whenever i hear anyone talking about stuff like that i guess i see his face in a snake oil salesmans suit i'm not going to rip on all dating coaches, just the creeps. and that comment struck me as not very authentic. this is what i saw: premise: acquire beautiful woman. advice: treat her as if she's not an object to you and that her looks don't matter, even though the whole stated premise you want to get with the woman is because she is beautiful. come on, that just comes across as manipulative...

But was he successful in pulling attractive females or did they see through his bullshit?

And plus one to the "average" comments. Completely average in comparison to most super hot women. The unbelievable ones are always the ones with interesting or uncommon characteristics. Like an amazing face, or EE-sized boobies. I dunno about you fellers, but more than any other trait, I'm a face man. Tits, ass, hips, whatever.. not as important imo.