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Originally posted by Slylee yea but a majority of society is on that level, so dr. phil is actually a genius for knowing how to talk their language, and still get his point across.

Indeed, that is the key to his success. Playing to the lowest common denominator always gets you the largest following.

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Originally posted by RickyM you're just a shit version of Moral Hazard. At least he knows what he's talking about.

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Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN lol, i love it when moral feels the need to lay the smack down

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Originally posted by Moral Hazard Indeed, that is the key to his success. Playing to the lowest common denominator always gets you the largest following.

for a second there i thought you were talking about george bush

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Originally posted by igottaknow for a second there i thought you were talking about george bush

He works on the very same principle.

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Originally posted by RickyM you're just a shit version of Moral Hazard. At least he knows what he's talking about.

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Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN lol, i love it when moral feels the need to lay the smack down

marriage isnt worth it, imo

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NOBODY DOES THIS ANYMORE

I don't think it makes a difference whether you get married or not, in the long run..

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The Ecstasy (MDMA) Bible Thread 2.0

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Originally posted by Masonious you win again dude - and nice move shoving the whole i figured out how to order pizza thing in my face. i tried that 4 and a half months ago and woke up with a Taiwanese transvestite but to Ygrene it's just, "anoother day in the life, noooo biggieee".

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Originally posted by Moral Hazard I think individualism is the root cause of much of the divorce we see today. Too many people believe that their wants and needs are all that is important or at best they are of paramount importance thus they give too little consideration to their partner or the family unit. This leads to people acting in their own interest, which often conflicts with their partners... if both are acting for their own interests then when they conflict the marriage will be dissolved. Nietzsche stated "the will to marriage is the will of two creators to create something greater then those who created it, and in doing so go under." (thus spoke zarathustra part II). What he's stating here is that marriage is and must be a choice by the two individuals to create a new entity that is greater then each of the individuals... this new entity is the couple. In forming the couple the two individuals must give up their individual will in favour of the couple's will. I agree with this completely. Once married, individuals need to give greater consideration to what is in the best interest of the combined couple then what is in the best interest of each of the individuals. If each person always acts in the best interest of the couple then the marriage will be a success and both partners will share in that success and happyness. As soon as one of the partners puts their will above the best interest of the couple then the marriage suffers.

although it is still very important to have your time away from each other too. ie have your own groups of friends and doing things with them without your so.

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Originally posted by Moral Hazard nigga please... that idiot wouldn't, nay couldn't, be quite so elequent or relevent... and certainly he couldn't possibly understand Nietzsche. If it were Dr. Phil talking he would have said something more like this..... "Ya'll can't be behaving like you're single. Ya can't win a tug of war if everybody on the team is pulling the rope in different directions. Fruit salad ain't a salad unless it's all in one cup, the way ya'll are acting yer just peachs and pineapples in different bowls."

ROFL

and mr hazard its ELOQUENT not ELEQUENT.

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Originally posted by gehzumteufel ROFL and mr hazard its ELOQUENT not ELEQUENT.

We all know I fail at spelling

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Originally posted by RickyM you're just a shit version of Moral Hazard. At least he knows what he's talking about.

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Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN lol, i love it when moral feels the need to lay the smack down

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Originally posted by Moral Hazard We all know I fail at spelling

hehe yeah.

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Originally posted by Lira I do like my girlfriend a lot

What do you mean "like"? You're supposed to love her and not be ashamed to admit it if you're even thinking of getting married.

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Originally posted by Lira I'm probably going to live in Japan for a year in September

You're definetely NOT ready to get married.

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Originally posted by gehzumteufel although it is still very important to have your time away from each other too. ie have your own groups of friends and doing things with them without your so. ROFL and mr hazard its ELOQUENT not ELEQUENT.

yes its very important, but when u do that, one of u will always get jealous eventually and all hell breaks loose...this marriage thing just doesn't work anymore these days. Its bad enough having a girlfriend/boyfriend living with u, and not having a legal agreement where u can walk away easily

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Originally posted by KiNeTiC ENeRgY yes its very important, but when u do that, one of u will always get jealous eventually and all hell breaks loose...this marriage thing just doesn't work anymore these days. Its bad enough having a girlfriend/boyfriend living with u, and not having a legal agreement where u can walk away easily

not true. if they are spending a healthy amount of time with their so/fiancee/wife then it will not be a problem. also if it is a healthy marriage it wont be a problem as they talk to each other and also let each other know what is bothering them. if your getting jealous then there is a communication problem. and we all know communication is key to a healthy marriage.