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Originally posted by cheshirepk8

i agree. i am the same way and have only ever cheated once when i was a teen...so yeah that doesn't count. I think if you reach my age and are still unmarried you are too fucking jaded to be able to trust or give enough of yourself to make another person happy. I'm all about self preservation at this point in life...maybe that will change when i find the right person, but it really isn't priority #1 anymore.

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Originally posted by all-nite-freak i agree. i am the same way and have only ever cheated once when i was a teen...so yeah that doesn't count. I think if you reach my age and are still unmarried you are too fucking jaded to be able to trust or give enough of yourself to make another person happy. I'm all about self preservation at this point in life...maybe that will change when i find the right person, but it really isn't priority #1 anymore.

Wow... not sure i could've said it better myself.

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Originally posted by cheshirepk8 Wow... not sure i could've said it better myself.

the funny thing is for the first time in my life i can actually think of something other than getting laid when i am around women...its actually a nice feeling and i've finally learned to crochet

haha and i wore a dress to make someone feel better...maybe im a fag now thats allergic to man anus.

i wouldn't make that assumption about anyone who is your age and isn't married yet. so what if someone is really career oriented and just hasn't really had time for a serious relationship and/or isn't settling or wanting to jump into something? doesn't mean they are jaded. could just mean they have their head on straight.
jay, everything doesn't have to be about people not trusting or being jaded. lol that's just you.

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone

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Originally posted by all-nite-freak i agree. i am the same way and have only ever cheated once when i was a teen...so yeah that doesn't count. I think if you reach my age and are still unmarried you are too fucking jaded to be able to trust or give enough of yourself to make another person happy. I'm all about self preservation at this point in life...maybe that will change when i find the right person, but it really isn't priority #1 anymore.

i guess the one thing i will add is that i may not like relationships because of all the headaches it brings... but i would prefer to have a committed fuck-buddy. That way you don't have to deal with the drama but you still get the good sex. I think it's an everyone wins situation!

::shrug::

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Originally posted by cheshirepk8 i guess the one thing i will add is that i may not like relationships because of all the headaches it brings... but i would prefer to have a committed fuck-buddy. That way you don't have to deal with the drama but you still get the good sex. I think it's an everyone wins situation! ::shrug::

it doesn't always work out like that. one of u usually ends up wanting more.

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone

did you not see I THINK in my post Slylee?

durrrr

seriously your so vain..i bet you thought this post was about you



and comitted fuck buddy is a relationship to me because well jealousy will make its way in there soon enough. Maybe not right away...but sooner or later. You are basically saying to the person..i'll fuck you but you aren't good enough to ever have me. Thats too mean for me to do, and i sodomize single mothers and post pics

don't take the way you said "i think" out of context there.


and let's not get carried away with using the word "nice" to describe yourself either

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone

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Originally posted by cheshirepk8 i guess the one thing i will add is that i may not like relationships because of all the headaches it brings... but i would prefer to have a committed fuck-buddy. That way you don't have to deal with the drama but you still get the good sex. I think it's an everyone wins situation! ::shrug::

Every attempt at this I've ever seen has always failed. You usually end up with more drama than a real relationship

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Originally posted by Slylee i wouldn't make that assumption about anyone who is your age and isn't married yet. so what if someone is really career oriented and just hasn't really had time for a serious relationship and/or isn't settling or wanting to jump into something? doesn't mean they are jaded. could just mean they have their head on straight. jay, everything doesn't have to be about people not trusting or being jaded. lol that's just you.

Actually that's true too...

For me it's kind of everything you said. I am a double major in CS + Engineering. I don't have time to deal with anything serious. I am not settling just to be in a relationship and there are some trust things in there too somewhere... Plus, I am always the friend not the object of affection of my object of affection. Which just sucks ass... So i kinda gave up.

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Originally posted by Slylee don't take the way you said "i think" out of context there. and let's not get carried away with using the word "nice" to describe yourself either

you have never met me sly..and really don't have anything to base that on. I do more for others than i let you cor niglets think.