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Originally posted by jennypie LOL, maybe I'll just send her that vid. Thanks, Radagast!

Obviously the sad songs are getting to you. Here's a happy one to lighten up the mood around here.

Is that Dave Dresden????

Alright...gonna send her a message tonight. Do you think this is appropriate? I really don't know how the fuck to go about this. :S


Hi******,

I'm not really sure how to go about this, so I'll just come right out and say it: I think we're sisters. If your mom's name is Laura and you have a brother named Drake, then we are definitely sisters - we had the same father.

I don't really know what else to say...I don't want to say too much in case you're not the girl I think you are, but I don't want to say too little and upset you.

My name is Jenn. I know this is probably surreal for you, and you're probably freaking out, but I hope that if you ARE my sister, that we can talk.



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Originally posted by jennypie Alright...gonna send her a message tonight. Do you think this is appropriate? I really don't know how the fuck to go about this. :S Hi Shivhan, I'm not really sure how to go about this, so I'll just come right out and say it: I think we're sisters. If your mom's name is Laura and you have a brother named Drake, then we are definitely sisters - we had the same father. I don't really know what else to say...I don't want to say too much in case you're not the girl I think you are, but I don't want to say too little and upset you. My name is Jenn. I know this is probably surreal for you, and you're probably freaking out, but I hope that if you ARE my sister, that we can talk. ???

sounds good, but you might want to include a tidbit about yourself so you dont sound so accusatory. (not that you are accusing, just to make it more personal)

location, age, interests, oral/anal...lol|

(not entirely joking)

(and you are living with questions, as she may be)

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i think it's appropriate. i wish you all the best. do you have any pictures of your father that you can send?

yah and introduce yourself i think is a good i idea + 1 on that biz

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Too late, I already sent it

The reason I'm not including too much info is because I have no fucking idea how much she may or may not know...and what if she wants no part of this?? I don't want to drop too much on her at once. Simply being contacted will be a big enough shock for now.

I think I said it in this thread already...but there was some drama when my dad died, and she was just a baby...so that's why I need to include as little info as possible. I don't know what she knows..what her mom may have told her, etc.

I'll leave it in her hands and let her set the pace.

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Originally posted by jennypie I think I said it in this thread already...but there was some drama when my dad died, and she was just a baby...so that's why I need to include as little info as possible. I don't know what she knows..what her mom may have told her, etc. I'll leave it in her hands and let her set the pace.

yeah but even if you are only related by coincidence its better to seem human and not like some crazy butt obsessed internet person.

i know you are being careful, but this could be worse for her than for you...and if you are sisters, she will need to know something|

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'That's like telling a Kodiak bear to stop fcking older men.'

Well she'll find out more if she decides she wants to talk to me.

Honestly, the situation we come from is sort of fucked...I think this is the best way.

Either way it's a huge fucking bomb to have dropped on her...saying more isn't really going to make it any better. I think this would be overwhelming enough.


And related by coincidence? Lol, it's not really a coincidence, dude.

Coincidentally, we come from the same testicles.

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I should have just put that.