Registered: Jan 2007
Location: Adelaide, Australia
When two gay guys go home, how do you decide who goes on top first? Like do you play scissors paper rock in the cab home or something?
Doesn't it get awkward when the majority of your social circle are people you could potentially be sexually attracted to/have sex with/have had sex with (I'm assuming you mostly hang out with other gay guys here, most of the gay guys I know do, might be wrong here though)? Do you find the line between friend/friend with benefits/casual sex/relationship gets at all blurry, or do gay guys somehow keep that really defined?
Does the thought that you'll never be able to have children (barring unusual circumstances) bother you?
Jun-06-2008 06:49
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Originally posted by Taranis
When two gay guys go home, how do you decide who goes on top first? Like do you play scissors paper rock in the cab home or something?
Doesn't it get awkward when the majority of your social circle are people you could potentially be sexually attracted to/have sex with/have had sex with (I'm assuming you mostly hang out with other gay guys here, most of the gay guys I know do, might be wrong here though)? Do you find the line between friend/friend with benefits/casual sex/relationship gets at all blurry, or do gay guys somehow keep that really defined?
Does the thought that you'll never be able to have children (barring unusual circumstances) bother you?
Originally posted by Taranis
When two gay guys go home, how do you decide who goes on top first? Like do you play scissors paper rock in the cab home or something?
Anything could happen. It's like there's a continuum that separates total top from a total bottom. So any gay guy could be leaning strongly or weakly one way or the other. So if two tops hit it off, the one that prefers to top the most would likely convince the other top to bottom. In the worst case scenario, two militant bottoms or two militant tops just don't end up having sex.
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Doesn't it get awkward when the majority of your social circle are people you could potentially be sexually attracted to/have sex with/have had sex with (I'm assuming you mostly hang out with other gay guys here, most of the gay guys I know do, might be wrong here though)?
When I hang out with crowds where there are more than one attractive gay guys I feel awkward because I want to hit on both of them but I know I have to choose just one otherwise they think I'm a slut and my game is over. Other than that, most gay guys I hang out with I have absolutely no attraction to.
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Do you find the line between friend/friend with benefits/casual sex/relationship gets at all blurry, or do gay guys somehow keep that really defined?
It's blurry as hell.
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Does the thought that you'll never be able to have children (barring unusual circumstances) bother you?
I can get a chick prego just as easily as you can. Anytime a gay person wants to have kids they can always adopt, use artificial insemination, or just get drunk and do the old method.
