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AMMORA
are u Listed?
Registered: May 2006
Location: on the moon
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i'm curious out of the guys in this thread, would you or wouldn't you be more likely to go along with a long-distance relationship? seems like the majority of guys would rather hold out for something close to home than deal with long distance.
in the beginning of summer i met an awesome guy 4 hours away while i was covering for a manager at work. i got to visit several times and we seemed to be doing just fine, despite the distance...then he pulled the plug on it, stating it was the actual distance that he couldn't deal with. i thought it was a cop-out and he just wanted to be free to bang whomever...but he still keeps in touch with me quite often and inquires when i'm moving down there (which is in the works within the coming months). it always confuses me b/c if he doesn't think i'm worth committing to with a 4 hour distance, why does he care if i move there or not in the near future?
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there comes a time when the operation of the machine is so odious that you cannot even tacitly participate. you've got to place your bodies on the gears, the wheels, all the mechanism. you've got to indicate to those who own it and those who run it, that unless you are free, the machine will be prevented from working at all.
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Oct-01-2008 23:06
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elFreak
Blood Diamonds and Salsa

Registered: Feb 2008
Location: With Juan Pachanga Eating Tacos. Ah Ha Si Mi Gusta.
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Oct-01-2008 23:10
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Ted Promo
NWO WOLFPACK INSANE

Registered: Jun 2005
Location: Can this be my goal??!
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| quote: | Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
You're an attractive guy, Lira. I mean that. Sure you're sort of a dork, but once women get out of school, they learn to appreciate that sort of thing.
Don't expect other girls to not notice you for one moment, I am sure that half of your friends have their eyes on you now that this other girl is out of the picture. And you can afford to be discerning amongst them, I'm sure.
I am, for obvious reasons, reticent to tell you how you should feel, but I do however genuinely believe that this whole 'how do I maintain a long-distance relationship' business is a temporary thing. I suppose this is the part where I am supposed to urge you to ask yourself certain questions, but I think I will just skip that phase and propose to you that men are largely visual creatures and temporal beings; that is to say, we are far more comfortable being bearers of seed than bearers of responsibility and that biology is a thing we are remiss to conquer. Are we slaves to it? Possibly. But I cannot say I have ever been truly subjugated by a dynamic I extract pleasure from. So indulge with responsibility. Tell your girlfriend that your love may be for her, but your body is not her temple. That you shall involve yourself with others trusted amongst your social circle and that the sex you exercise is a thing she is to celebrate in her love for you else it is an impure admiration of supposed possession; that her 'love' for you is ephemeral and based strictly upon ownership. You'll be rid of that pest for sure. Go for it. |
This. Oh god this.
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Oct-02-2008 01:12
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UWM
mandroid
Registered: Mar 2001
Location: Here
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I sometimes have a hard time and my girlfriend lives only 2 hours away and we see each other on a weekly basis.
Thankfully that all changes this weekend.
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Oct-02-2008 01:41
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