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Originally posted by DaRoZa i dance like a prick

ya i can vouch for that


missed you at Chris Lake!
didn't feel like a thursday nightdreamer event without all my girlfriends asking me to introduce them to you lol

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Originally posted by Slylee oh well, different strokes different vaginas

Some dance to remember ~ Some dance to forget

i used to bedroom rave to trance music when in high school lol

I dance to have fun and enjoy the music. Not to worry about what some loser girl like ania is thinking.

bullshit

you'd totally pull out the Patrick Swayze moves trying to impress
i know you're type kokocha

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Originally posted by Slylee oh well, different strokes different vaginas

Some dance to remember ~ Some dance to forget

mmm kokocha

And no half the time I'm dancing with myself anyways. I like dancing with a girl friend not some random bitty at a club. Other then that it's salsa dancing with old ladies and my mom at her parties

Oh snap, chach loves the cougars. Word.

ya dancing alone ftw

I have asked my bf what drove him to ask me for my number at the club, the first night we met

and he said that among other things, it was because I was the only girl on the dancefloor who was doing her own thing and not shaking mad ass like a 90s r&b video

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Originally posted by Slylee oh well, different strokes different vaginas

Some dance to remember ~ Some dance to forget

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Originally posted by Ania_xox ya dancing alone ftw

+1

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Originally posted by Ygrene I once saw Swamper peel off 4 or 5 $100 bills from a fat roll and say this to Donald Trump: "Go clean yourself up; you look like a bum.". And then he threw the bills right in Trump's face/hair! Then Swamper and his entourage of 30, who were all wearing TA monogramed Rolexes, left the room and flew to Hawaii for a few hours because Del wanted fresh coconut. To his defense, Trump didn't even really look like a bum.

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Originally posted by Meat187 Deep House, Techno, anything scarfy: no / hardly

wtf??


are these guys scarfy? get a clue man.



^this guy will out-dance anyone at the party, when he's not behind the decks.



mad mike banks will probably run you over in his street racer if you call his bandana a scarf





and yes i dance quite a lot, if i am feeling the music. if i am not feeling the music i don't even try. my opinion is that if i feel it, i won't even have to try to dance - i won't be able to help dancing.

please someone find him a clue -- nigga danzes to trance but not hauz

oo im gettin a ragin clue rite now

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Originally posted by enydo I don't understand people who show up to shows and don't dance once, not at all. They head to the bar, grab a beer, and then sit in the corner headbobbing eyeing everybody else. That just seems so boring.

maybe i can help you understand one perspective-

not everyone is a gung-ho consumer of the nightclub product. personally, i don't dance unless i am MOVED to dance. If it sucks but I'm there with friends, I'd rather hang out with friends and hope it gets better. I resent the idea that you need to dance if you are at a nightclub, just because everyone else is or because you are in an environment conditions one to dance. Those are the worst parties, those parties where everyone dances because they think they should and they are a little tispy (most nightclub experiences). You end up with a lot of people awkwardly moving in tight social circles and drinking to lose their self-conscious behavior. There are always those people, of course, who just like to dance alone regardless, whether for escapist reasons, exhibitionist reasons, or health, or whatever.

Personally, my take on it is if the music moves me, i won't be able to help myself from dancing. If I am in a crowd where most people can't help themselves from dancing, it feels fucking awesome. You feed off people's energy, feel interconnected, etc. There's no need to get fucked up, no need to cluster awkwardly. I prefer to be in such an environment where everybody loses their shit.

That said, if I'm NOT feeling it, I don't dance. First reason is I don't feel you should give the DJ the wrong impression if you think the music sucks. If you think the music sucks, don't dance. If the DJ changes things up and you like it, show him/her you appreciate it by dancing. A lot of people just dancing to mediocre music because they think they have to just leads to a mediocre experience for everyone.

So like I said, if I'm not on the floor losing my shit, I am probably away from the loud noise, talking with friends and/or watching people awkwardly cluster on the floor or watching some manipulative douchebag work a slut, or I'll just leave and do something else.

The other thing to consider is at some especially 'sceney' parties, most people are there just to hang out with acquaintances and mutually support each other's insecurities. (the insecurities that cause people to become sceney in the first place) I can't stand that shit.

also, i can't stand the concept of 'the show' in dance music. it doesn't belong there. once i had to deejay such a 'show' for like 700 people, where i was on a stage, and i just felt like a huge doofus. That's what I can't stand about DJs at music festivals, eg DEMF. I'll be happy to see a live show on a stage, but I don't want to see a guy playing records, wtf. Also it's just harder to connect as a DJ in such environments if you're not superfamous or playing for a 'best hits' crowd like tiesto at UMF or something.

/negativity

Last edited by nefardec on May-24-2009 at 00:19