Might not directly be my business but he has deceived and hurt a very close friend of mine (OP) and if he's able to do that, who knows what else he has lied about.
If that's douchey, then guilty as charged.
So confront him directly, not through a post on a web forum. It's not douchey, it's just cowardly.
Edit: And what the fuck is pointing out who it is on the internet solving? Showing that you're a pussy?
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Mar-17-2011 00:39
evil_cookie
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Registered: Feb 2006
Location: Toronto
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Originally posted by srussell0018
In public? By showing everyone who the thread is about? That's retarded. If he wants to get involved, go kick the guy's ass or something, don't fucking tell everyone about it on the internet. That's just unnecessary.
Tell me, what is the positive that comes from his pointing out who it is on the internet? Satisfies your desire for gossip?
Canadians...
Hmmm...in any other situation I think I'd be inclined to agree with you. However, the person in question has become friends with many people on this forum through this forum.
I think people have a right to know who their friends really are.
Mar-17-2011 00:39
mdm8
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y edi
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Originally posted by evil_cookie
Hmmm...in any other situation I think I'd be inclined to agree with you. However, the person in question has become friends with many people on this forum through this forum.
I think people have a right to know who their friends really are.
Exactly what I'm getting at.
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Originally posted by srussell0018
So confront him directly, not through a post on a web forum. It's not douchey, it's just cowardly.
See my edit.
Mar-17-2011 00:40
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Location: Toronto, Canada
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Mar-17-2011 00:41
srussell0018
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Registered: Dec 2006
Location: Blumsberg
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Originally posted by evil_cookie
Hmmm...in any other situation I think I'd be inclined to agree with you. However, the person in question has become friends with many people on this forum through this forum.
I think people have a right to know who their friends really are.
How he behaves in his marriage or with an intimate partner is completely irrelevant to who he is as a person, or how he behaves as a friend. This was between he, his wife, and the OP, and although she shouldn't have even created this thread in the first place, someone else pointing out who it is is beyond stupid. Regardless of who he's friends with, it is still not his business.
How is that so hard to understand? How many people on here have ever cheated on a girlfriend? Start the witch hunt now.
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Mar-17-2011 00:43
srussell0018
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Location: Blumsberg
Re: y edi
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Originally posted by mdm8
Exactly what I'm getting at.
See my edit.
I saw it. You said it wouldn't solve anything. What exactly were you solving by pointing out who he is on a web forum? The mystery of how much of an asshole you can be?
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Mar-17-2011 00:44
Xavier Moriarty
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Originally posted by srussell0018
Tell me, what is the positive that comes from his pointing out who it is on the internet? Satisfies your desire for gossip?
Canadians...
i have a few acquaintances here, no close friends i could gossip with. if i was in her situation i'd do the same thing. you wouldnt??
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Mar-17-2011 00:45
evil_cookie
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Registered: Feb 2006
Location: Toronto
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Originally posted by srussell0018
How he behaves in his marriage or with an intimate partner is completely irrelevant to who he is as a person, or how he behaves as a friend.
ROFL.
I don't even know how to respond to that.
What the..f
Mar-17-2011 00:45
Capo di tutti
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Registered: Apr 2008
Location: Toronto, Ontario
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Originally posted by Xavier Moriarty
i have a few acquaintances here, no close friends i could gossip with. if i was in her situation i'd do the same thing. you wouldnt??
Post on a forum after taking care of it offline???
Not while there is a set of balls swinging between by quads.
EDIT: Had she had noway to reach him or confront him, his wife etc...then conveying her msg direct or indirect online as a final medium could be just.
Mar-17-2011 00:47
srussell0018
Chaostician
Registered: Dec 2006
Location: Blumsberg
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Originally posted by Capo di tutti
Post on a forum after taking care of it offline???
Not while there is a set of balls swinging between by quads.
+2
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Mar-17-2011 00:47
srussell0018
Chaostician
Registered: Dec 2006
Location: Blumsberg
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Originally posted by evil_cookie
ROFL.
I don't even know how to respond to that.
What the..f
lol I just re-read that and I agree. What I meant is that yes, that was an incredibly shitty thing of him to do, and I think we can all agree on that. However, that shouldn't lead anyone to believe that he's a bad friend or anything of that nature. The two are unrelated. People make mistakes, and regardless of who is at fault, it should remain the business of only the three people that it involves.
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Mar-17-2011 00:50
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