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| quote: | Originally posted by DJRYAN™
Because I'm not the one attacking anyone else. I live a very placid existence with music being my driving motivator in life. Of course I have other interests but I don't see how asking you why you feel the need to constantly bombard my threads with frivolous nonsense will ease whatever ill feelings you have towards me. I do believe there is an underlying reason why I'm singled out by the particpants in this thread and thus why I am asking you to indicate what those reasons are. Granted, I understand that its acceptable not to be liked by everyone and that some people will never like me but to have everything about me constantly analyzed like it was under a microscope is just a tad obsessive.
And to answer you second question.
Not necessairly. There could be lots of factors that contribute to your animosty, ill feelings, and/or hate. But looking back on the things I've contributed since being an "active" TA Member I most certainly haven't a clue why its this severe. And that's why we're having this discussion. Maybe there are misunderstandings. Maybe your own sub-conscience has elevated me to a higher level, which has cultivated some resentment. Maybe a lot of you are just hateful people. I'm not trying to change you. I accept you for who you are. The only place I'm coming from is how come the acceptence isn't mutual. |
True. You're not attacking anyone. I haven't seen you get heated, very recently, although you did have some moments when you first arrived. It's nothing overt that you're doing. It's subtle and kind of hard to define. It's found in instances like over-stating your credentials in a thread where your professional advice was completely uncalled for. You have a collection of prominent egocentricities that are irksome. Sometimes, like that technicolor rainbow abortion you had as an avatar, you're receptive to correcting them. Still, it took a really long time for you to change it and people remember shit like that.
I've rarely seen you give feedback to much of anyone but you ask for it, a lot. You seem to think nothing of posting a mix in DJ Promotion. You don't listen to anyone else's work (unless you like the mainstream track list) and, not being a DJ, chances are that I'll post in people's threads there, before you will. You do the same thing in Music Producer's Promotion.
What I've mentioned are just examples. They are by no means, a complete picture. The problem you're having is that no one here likes ego. They love substance. You might not be mean, but you come off like a very shallow douche-bag.
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