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Originally posted by Eugene My question is, should you forget about the girls who don't give you a lot of eye contact/enthusiasm, and only go for those who openly send you signals? Last nite I went to a club and there was one girl I'd seen before, somewhat cute. I casually walked up to her and her friends -- after having a shot of vodka, a glass of wine, and a beer - and introduced myself. We smiled and shook hands. Then I met her several times on the other floors of the club, tried having a "light" -- very light -- conversation but she would respond, smile, and then go somewhere else... I think this describes 95% of what happens when you try to meet a girl! So is she not interested, and should you only chase the girls who send you signals? (eye contact, flirting..) ??? In other words, if you don't see clear signs of interest, should you forget it and move on? And do "clear signs of interest" even appear that often, even if you meet new girls every week?.. I think this is pretty rare and doesn't happen too often...

There's no secret code all girls are taught at school, different girls will respond differently in the same situations.

Best approach...go and introduce yourself. Make it clear that you're interested, without sounding desperate. Asking her for a light, or the time, or if she went to the same school as you is lame. Make it clear you're interested, don't just stand there smiling or you'll end up in the "is she not interested or does she just not realise that I'm interested or is she interested but too shy so should I go talk to her first but then she might not be interested but what if she is and she wants me to come over......etc etc.... 5 hours later you go home alone and fall asleep in a drunken stuper mid-wank" situation.

Talk to her; is she having a good night, is she at college, what's she studying etc. If she's interested, carry on. If she's not, fuck off and leave her alone.

There's no secret to getting a girl to like you. She either does or she doesn't, don't bother trying to be something you're not. Ignore all the "make sure you lean on your right foot, left eye-brow slightly raised and right shoulder at 40 degrees to the floor. Talk in a tone no higher than 40 decibels and do not extend your tounge more than 1cm outside your mouth. Never, ever, touch your face. if you sneeze, it's over so run away. If her left big toe is more than 1 metre from her right shin then she's not interested but if her left eye dialates by .5mm and she blinks between 5-11 times every 30 seconds then you're in there!" shit.

i personally like it when a guy just comes up to me, with a lot of confidence, and just starts chatting about virutally anything. i like it when they talk to me for a little to see if there's any initial chemistry there, rather than just asking for mu number from the getgo. it's definitely sexy tho when a guy has the balls to come up to me. i like that

i dont know about some of this stuff. My sister is a model, and she acts like a total dork when she likes a guy. Like some guy asked her out to a club, and she asks where it is first, and when he says where she says "KIRKLAND? i HATE Kirkland!"...even though she totally wanted to go. women get just as stupid as guys when they like you so i wouldnt take them being weird as a bad thing...gotta be persistent, and if they dont like it, imagine dying alone and as a virgin. I think you place that above a couple minutes of them being forced to spend time with you

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Originally posted by trancEyes22 i personally like it when a guy just comes up to me, with a lot of confidence, and just starts chatting about virutally anything. i like it when they talk to me for a little to see if there's any initial chemistry there, rather than just asking for mu number from the getgo. it's definitely sexy tho when a guy has the balls to come up to me. i like that

I rest my case m'lord.

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Originally posted by Orbax i dont know about some of this stuff. My sister is a model, and she acts like a total dork when she likes a guy. Like some guy asked her out to a club, and she asks where it is first, and when he says where she says "KIRKLAND? i HATE Kirkland!"...even though she totally wanted to go. women get just as stupid as guys when they like you so i wouldnt take them being weird as a bad thing...gotta be persistent, and if they dont like it, imagine dying alone and as a virgin. I think you place that above a couple minutes of them being forced to spend time with you

yeah def....boys, sometimes girls are just as nervous are you are when they approach them. so just take a deep breath and (in attempt to not sound corny) be yourself

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Originally posted by trancEyes22 i personally like it when a guy just comes up to me, with a lot of confidence, and just starts chatting about virutally anything... i like that

Erin, how about, when a girl comes up to you?
what does she have to do lol

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It's working for me so far. There's this chick I've been going after since the beginning of the semester...she's starting to warm up.

confidence is key. That's basically repeated by every experienced guy you ask, every internet discussion thingy on the net, every self-help book. JUST BE CONFIDENT.

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Originally posted by trancEyes22 lick me...lol

would it work if i did that as well??


how does the direct approach work, say in school? Like, just go up to a girl and ask her if she would wanna grab lunch after class? Obviously introducing yourself and being casual and all...but would that work, or would that scare her off?

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Originally posted by infinity HiGH would it work if i did that as well?? how does the direct approach work, say in school? Like, just go up to a girl and ask her if would wanna grab lunch after class? Obviously i'd introduce myself first...

hehe yes it'd work for u too...haha...but this guy asked for my number last week when i was at the student union. i had just finished eating lunch and he came over and asked if he could sit down. i was really flattered that he was so polite about it. we started talking and he really charmed me. confidence, not cockiness is the key!

i just walk up and snap my fingers. Half the time are like what, and all like "BITCH (slap) gimme yo NUMBAH" and then i call them at 2 am when im drunk and tell them to come to my place for sex

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Originally posted by Orbax i just walk up and snap my fingers. Half the time are like what, and all like "BITCH (slap) gimme yo NUMBAH" and then i call them at 2 am when im drunk and tell them to come to my place for sex

hm, i've considered this strategy, but i haven't heard any stories of success...