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Originally posted by 00soups00 there is no way this WONT deviate off to the gay conversation now.. but here's my 2cents to help it keep rolling.. the fact is, nicknack is correct in a generalising way.. This does happen.. They swarm in, see what they can grab thats on the way up, or way too happy and go back and f*CK it senseless till the morning.. However, its nto really any different from the same things that happen at straight clubs either.. Guys hunting from place to place to find a girl intoxicated enough to fcuk. Its just seemingly more socially acceptable, which is what alot of this comes down to. What I dont like is the uncomfortable feeling they give me, and how INDESCREET they are.. and many of you may argue, that well tahts my issue, but i don't necessarily think it is just mine. I mean i've only really started to realise the uncomfortableness that woman have to go through at the hands of scumbag men, and now it appears that some guys have to go through it too at the hands of seedy gay men... For Both Sexes, it is unfair... But there ain't much we can do about it unfortunately.. SEE ALL YOU SYDNEY SIDERS UP THERE FOR ABOVE AND BEYOND!!!!

So what if gay guys try to pick you up? How do you think girls feel in straight venues like Jackson's on George, The Coogee Palace, The Paragon e.t.c. Their are always sleazy smashed guys their trying to hit on the girls. It happens both ways. It is nothing to do with whether someone is gay or not. Their are always places where drunk desperate people try to hit on others. Just cause it is currently more sociably acceptable for guys to hit on girls rather than guys to hit on guys or girls to hit on girls doesn't make it fundamentally different.

If someone tries to hit on you just say no.

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Originally posted by Joshva So what if gay guys try to pick you up? How do you think girls feel in straight venues like Jackson's on George, The Coogee Palace, The Paragon e.t.c. Their are always sleazy smashed guys their trying to hit on the girls. It happens both ways. It is nothing to do with whether someone is gay or not. Their are always places where drunk desperate people try to hit on others. Just cause it is currently more sociably acceptable for guys to hit on girls rather than guys to hit on guys or girls to hit on girls doesn't make it fundamentally different. If someone tries to hit on you just say no.

umm josh.. isnt that what i effectively said??

can you read or just dj..

looks A SWEEET tracklisting..
be interested to hear there (EDITS) i wanted what exactly has been edited...

Last edited by webmeister on Aug-11-2004 at 10:52

nice tracklist Scott and Cam. Would loved to have heard Nu-nrg- Astralis on that wicked sound system. Ahhh maybe next time

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Originally posted by 00soups00 there is no way this WONT deviate off to the gay conversation now.. but here's my 2cents to help it keep rolling.. the fact is, nicknack is correct in a generalising way.. This does happen.. They swarm in, see what they can grab thats on the way up, or way too happy and go back and f*CK it senseless till the morning.. However, its nto really any different from the same things that happen at straight clubs either.. Guys hunting from place to place to find a girl intoxicated enough to fcuk. Its just seemingly more socially acceptable, which is what alot of this comes down to. What I dont like is the uncomfortable feeling they give me, and how INDESCREET they are.. and many of you may argue, that well tahts my issue, but i don't necessarily think it is just mine. I mean i've only really started to realise the uncomfortableness that woman have to go through at the hands of scumbag men, and now it appears that some guys have to go through it too at the hands of seedy gay men... For Both Sexes, it is unfair... But there ain't much we can do about it unfortunately..

I didn't want to do it, but you've forced me to respond hehe..

I do see what you are saying and I do agree with you about the whole sleazy guys gay or straight thing, good point! Though to give nicknacks abrasive, almost contemptuous views any positive consideration shouldn't happen.

I don't think you can be 'correct in a generalising way' in any circumstance really, it's just generalising fullstop. I guess the way you put it makes sense, but nicknacks was just dumb, I mean read it..It’s just so wrong, it's perplexing and brow furrowing inducing and I don’t think I have to point out the bigotry.

And if you feel uncomfortable, you just shouldn't let it bother you, just look on it from a distance as just another part of the variation of human life and laugh at it. If people come up to you to bother you, tell em 'not interested' or 'fuk off'..whatever the situation warrants, that's what I do, they usually get the message.

BUT anyway....this is dumb, I don't mean to be so involved about this, just people who read nicknacks comments would be offended, so I thought I’d point it out.


So see u at A + B where there'll be many more fucking homo grandfathers swarming in with their shirts off, trying their utmost to make it obvious they are gay by not being discreet and not acting decent, looking for the leftovers

hehe...

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LOL, haha i dont feel uncomfortable, in fact not one guy has come up to me at all and hit on me ( am i not good looking enough ?!? ) . I just think their should be a level of acceptable behaviour in a club, had a straight couple be ripping their clothes off on the dancefloor i would be thinking the same thing , well maybe it is those 'one person per cubicle' signs, they have nowhere else to go =)

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