as someone already pointed out...make sure you don't go out with a gang of 150 girls or so, it just won't work. go with a few friends, preferably just one. don't try to make it difficult when the guy comes up and starts talking to you, don't try to give the impression that you're "hard to get" when in fact you really wanna go home with him. and if you really really want the guy, you shouldn't give a fuck what your friend/friends think abt him...this is the most important point. i've heard from many women that the only reason they didn't go home with some dude they wanted was that their "friend" was totally dragging them away from the guy or some such shit...don't let your friends decide your night for you!

where do you usually see this guy?

that makes all the difference on which sort of advice you should get.

haha, I feel bad when I turn down a girl. It seems to happen every time I am at this one club too, I wonder if its the same girl. One used the lighter line, I just said no and continued dancing.



also you can go out with a bunch of your friends, but they need to help. Whereas guys have a single wingman when going in, girls can use battalians to go in. get like 6 girls (including you the instigator) to whisk him away from whatever he is doing and shower him with attention. Oh and all this should be preceeded with eye contact. eye contact is huge, if I see a girl trying to make eye contact and I am not interested I will look away. so it is a clue to move on without a lotta embarassment.


other than that use the ol technique of buying a drink, and starting a convo. a convo with open ended questions not yes/no ones.



if all else fails, move to vegas.

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Originally posted by töbias Thats a pretty weak insult actually. The majority of people don't offer any sort of reasonable advice and act like 12 year olds and someone is actually constructive and you insult them, well, aren't you just the forum tough guy. He doesn't have to justify himself to you.

It wasn't intended as an insult. I just found it funny a guy who's a self proclaimed virgin and someone who i think has never had a steady gf is giving pick-up advice. While you think being a virgin is an insult he doesn't he's actually proud of it (which is fine with me). who's insulting who? You're right on one count that most act like 12 yr olds, but any idiot who's hung out here for more than a week would know that.

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Originally posted by Boomer187 haha, I feel bad when I turn down a girl. It seems to happen every time I am at this one club too, I wonder if its the same girl. One used the lighter line, I just said no and continued dancing.

You have to beat the girls back with a stick? What cologne do you wear? I want some.

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As far as I know, I've only ever had 1 girl ask me out before. I really wasn't interested in her, despite the fact that many of my friends urged me to be interested in her, so I just evaded her at every turn. I was in High School at the time, and the only way I escaped was by graduating.

I don't feel too great about it, because that was probably the only chance I'll ever have at a girl who would ask me out, but oh well - hindsight's 20/20.

Anyone ever notice how, when engaging with women, they can laugh at your jokes and, at the height of their fake little giggles, they'll reach out to your body and stroke the parts that they're interested in? HOW DO THEY GET AWAY WITH IT?! I mean - you'll say something funny, they'll laugh, and all the while, they just reached out and touched your arm or your chest! If GUYS were to pull that sort of thing, many of us would be looking at the back of the Officer's car more often than not!

It's a strange game....

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Originally posted by DiMethGuy i must agree with whoever posted that "got a light" most of the chicks who came after me used that line...and it works. so start smoking...or pretend you do

This is true.

I dont smoke a lot but always try to have a Ligthter in my pocket just in case a girl ask me for a light.

And it works, if she starts a nice interesting conversation, she got me.

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Originally posted by töbias Thats a pretty weak insult actually. The majority of people don't offer any sort of reasonable advice and act like 12 year olds and someone is actually constructive and you insult them, well, aren't you just the forum tough guy. He doesn't have to justify himself to you.

*dunce cap for the dumbass*

Keep up the good work, once again you stick your nose in other peoples business and end up lookin like an ass.

Orbax is a virgin, he has said it many times.

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Originally posted by igottaknow You have to beat the girls back with a stick? What cologne do you wear? I want some.

notice I used the singular form of girl there.....


and the cologne I wear is called desperation.

Another hot polish girl? Are all polish girls hot, or is it just me? You should be able to get this guy easily. Just ask him. He's probably intimidated by you and shy. Get him drunk and make a move.

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Originally posted by Boomer187 the cologne I wear is called desperation.

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Originally posted by Nite-Mer Are all polish girls hot

Yes

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Originally posted by Rodrico *dunce cap for the dumbass* Keep up the good work, once again you stick your nose in other peoples business and end up lookin like an ass. Orbax is a virgin, he has said it many times.

its funny when noobs try to correct us veterans

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