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Renegade
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Originally posted by trance85
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but bear in mind, they didn't know she was gonna look like that. They said they thought she would have a fractured lip or something? Not that her face would be totally fucked up.


True, but if your daughter was born with a deformity like that and the doctor said "Look, we understand that this must be traumatic for you, but just give the word and we'll turn off the life-support", what would you do?


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Swamper
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This brings up a lot of 'bigger picture' questions:

- At what point do you cut off technological advances from furthering life (whereby natural causes/death would otherwise come into play) - how does this affect natural selection? (Easier to answer this at birth time than towards death - since almost everyone wants to live longer)

- Dozens of operations - no guarantee of a 'normal' life - could those same medical resources be used in other areas? Ppl on waiting lists for routine operations / etc.


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Old Post Dec-14-2004 07:44  Canada
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NomadaNare
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You know we're judging things from ourpoint of view. I wonder what it would be like to be that child. Think about it, with no outside people to deal with. You are literally a universe unto yourself. Think of the possibilities! There are so many things that will go on in her head that no one will ever no about, and those things could be answers to some of the most daunting questions ever posed. Look at all those guys in places like India whodo amazing things through meditation. That would be like ultimate life long meditation. Fuck stephen hawkings think about Akira.

Old Post Dec-15-2004 16:07  United States
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Originally posted by NomadaNare
You know we're judging things from ourpoint of view. I wonder what it would be like to be that child. Think about it, with no outside people to deal with. You are literally a universe unto yourself. Think of the possibilities! There are so many things that will go on in her head that no one will ever no about, and those things could be answers to some of the most daunting questions ever posed. Look at all those guys in places like India whodo amazing things through meditation. That would be like ultimate life long meditation. Fuck stephen hawkings think about Akira.


Most likely she will live a sheltered life complicated with medical problems. Not only will she be removed from modern society as an individual, she more than likely has not the capacity to actually observe and make sense of what she sees. Education will be minimal, as her parents will believe that she shouldn't have to go through that as well, and coddle and treat her as a pet, since there is no real personality to make a connection with. she'll never know the meaning of true love, share or gain any sort of insight on humanity or the universe because she will be too preoccupied staring blankly at the television or having Dr. Seuss read to her.
Life long meditation? Now you're just being idealistic from your own point of view. Sadly, this girl has a very limited future and there isn't much anyone can do about it.


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Lira
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Originally posted by Renegade
As callous as this may sound, sometimes I think it would be far more humane to allow babies born with such horendous birth defects to die quickly and peacefully immediately after being born. I don't care what anyone says, sometimes the trauma of such an existence isn't worth inflicting on the baby and the human being it will develop into. If I were a parent and I were to find out that my child would be so malformed, I don't think I'd have to heart to let it suffer by keeping it alive. While these parents have gone through with the birth - and it's ultimately their decision - I'm not sure that I can agree with the mantra that any sort of existence is preferable to the alternative of a painless death. I mean, fanciful expectations aside, what kind of future does that human being actually have?

I'm against the idea of fixing an error with another mistake. The error is not her deformity, by the way, but the reaction from society. In order to back up laws people hold uncounsciousnessly rather than understanding why they exist, judgement is a standard in our society. Mocking, prejudice... just name it. None of these problems belong to the child, but to the people around her. The trauma isn't hers, it's not self-inflicted. Although she'll probably suffer, we all suffer because of something in our lives. Sure, it's a different sorrow, but what makes us think that she'll not be able to cope with the pain. It's non-sense to believe she's emotionally fragile just because she's not like us.
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Originally posted by Swamper
This brings up a lot of 'bigger picture' questions:

- At what point do you cut off technological advances from furthering life (whereby natural causes/death would otherwise come into play) - how does this affect natural selection? (Easier to answer this at birth time than towards death - since almost everyone wants to live longer)

- Dozens of operations - no guarantee of a 'normal' life - could those same medical resources be used in other areas? Ppl on waiting lists for routine operations / etc.

- Natural selection comes to wealth - if you've got the money, your chances of surviving are higher. Doesn't seem much different though from those who lived in fertile lands and those who didn't in ancient times. The ones who had access to food and good water would naturally have advantages, not necessarily being the fittest.

- I reckon the systems are different. I don't know much about the health system, specially in a foreign country, but I don't expect the rules to be the same in an "emergency" (as it's probably labelled) and in a routine operation.


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fitom tiel
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Registered: Apr 2003
Location: down in it

Uh! Got no card so I got not soul
Life is prison, no parole, no control
Tha jura got my number on a wire tap
'Cause I jack for similac, fuck a cadillac
Survive one motive no hope
'Cause every sidewalk I walk is like a tightrope
Yes I know my deadline sire, when my life expires
I'm sendin' paper south under tha barbed wire
Tha mother of my child will lose her mind at my grave
It's my life for their life so call it a free trade
"Por vida" and our name up on tha stall
I took a death trip when I tried ta cross tha white wall
Walk unseen past tha graves an tha gates, born without a face
One motive no hope ah, born without a face
Walk unseen past tha graves an tha gates, born without a face
One motive no hope ah, yeah, born without a face
Without a face

Yeah, I tried ta look back ta my past long lost
A blood donor ta tha land owner holocaust
Pops heart stopped, in came tha air drop
Flooded tha trench he couldn't shake tha toxic shock
Maize was all we needed ta sustain
Now her golden skin burns, insecticide rain
Ya down wit DDT yeah you know me
Raped for tha grapes, profit for tha bourgeois
War tape boomin' path is Luminoso
I'm headed north like my name was kid Cisco
To survive one motive no hope, ah
It's hard ta breathe wit Wilson's head around my throat
Strangled and mangled another SS curtain call
When I tried ta cross tha white wall
When I tried ta cross tha white walls
Walk unseen past tha graves an tha gates, born without a face
One motive no hope ah, born without a face
Walk unseen past tha graves an tha gates, born without a face
One motive no hope ah, born without a face

You say fortify, reaction, you divide
And you say fortify, reaction, reaction
And you say fortify, reaction, reaction
You say fortify, reaction, you divide



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Massive84
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Registered: Jul 2003
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quote:
Originally posted by NomadaNare
You know we're judging things from ourpoint of view. I wonder what it would be like to be that child. Think about it, with no outside people to deal with. You are literally a universe unto yourself. Think of the possibilities! There are so many things that will go on in her head that no one will ever no about, and those things could be answers to some of the most daunting questions ever posed. Look at all those guys in places like India whodo amazing things through meditation. That would be like ultimate life long meditation. Fuck stephen hawkings think about Akira.


No your wrong.

This person is a child now, she doesn't know what world will bring. IMO life starts when your able to feel how the world works.
12-15 is a great age. Am not saying kill all kids below, just saying you will start to know when things CAN hurt or make you happy.

Emotions are very important in life, maybe more than money. But if your going to feel depressed your whole life (and am 1000000000% sure this girl will when she will grow up) it will be more painfull than anything you can imagine. Death would be a joke compared to this pain.

What do you expect? this person won't have a normal life and the fucking parents now that well...yes the parents will love their child forever and ever, but what if they die? and this girl is 40.
It's selfish from the parents IMO, and am going to agree with Renegade.

Therasa, it's not a narrow minded thing, but it's just how the world is. You know i even think the next generation will be all about looks , money, and succes. And looking like this girl won't get you anywhere.

Yes abort it should beeen from hour 1, it sounds really harsh, but why fucking believe in miracles? This is just torture and using God as an excuse is just trying to make the pain less.....but it wont change a thing and the parents know that.


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