women confuse me...there are no two ways about it.

This thread confuses me.

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Originally posted by Floorfiller women confuse me...there are no two ways about it.

a lot of the confusion is because its not logical to a man. infact, its very counter intuitive. there are a few people on this board who can vouch for my teachings. there will be some written documents i'll be selling in the next 6 monthes

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well how i see it...when i'm with a girl, i'm not trying to win...its not a competition. like all of this pretend you are busy crap...what is that? i'd rather just be straight up about stuff...

Thats why I you, Jason.

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Originally posted by Floorfiller well how i see it...when i'm with a girl, i'm not trying to win...its not a competition. like all of this pretend you are busy crap...what is that? i'd rather just be straight up about stuff...

Jason,

go after the girl you've had the longest crush on. go after the girl you've felt so physically attracted to for the last couple years.

let me know where you stand. it sucks you guys are putting down ideas because you've NEVER heard them before. the idea i gave him about being busy is because really attractive girls are inendated with guys that are willing to give up everything for them the second they get the chance.

make yourself worthy, make a girl want you, make a girl chase you. quit taking such submissive roles in a relationship! it will get you no where and no one will be happy.

if you lived near me i'd bring you out tonight. i would be able to physically prove to you a multitude of ideals you probably won't understand without me talking about the pyschology behind.

look at your life right now. because when i looked back on mine, i hated the fact that i dated the same type of girl all the time because i realized it was the type i was attracting. i hated being stuck in a spot where i didn't know how to better myself.





if anything i'm applying ideas in this thread to help guys out who don't "get it" . you can write me if you have any questions. @email.com

if women knew what they wanted there wouldnt be 30 magazines out every single month telling them

DJar is right for the most part. You dont really 'ignore' women you just have to be the kind of vague guy and they gotta try to catch your attention. Then you let them know their efforts are working.

its a 2 way street and both people get bored with it pretty quick if the status quo where youre both super duper and sexy all the time is ok with you. They just dribble off because no one is trying any more because theyre both just fine.

At least thats been my experience. I sit there and just get BORED because they dont try to act flirty, cute, and fun any more. They think they got you.

Ive been having to seriously revamp my "nice guy" approach because its been an abysmal failure time after time.

When a girl says "im thirsty" i usually just get her a cup of water I dont really say anything, its just kind of part of my treatment of women. Its not an incident to me, but theyre always shocked. Which means most people ARENT doing that...which is weird to me. But then again...those are the guys they are in relationships with so ...

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Originally posted by Floorfiller well how i see it...when i'm with a girl, i'm not trying to win...its not a competition. like all of this pretend you are busy crap...what is that? i'd rather just be straight up about stuff...

Now guys like this are few ad far between. Usually, the woman says 'we need to talk'. He switches off and nods head periodically, then says 'yes, you're right, let's do that'. Then carry on behaving as he did in the first place. Back to square one...

You're right Ross, a lot of guys are over-influenced by their mums. They're easy to spot - EVERYTHING that she asks of him is 'nagging'. A simple, straight request e.g. 'Help me with the washing up please' to these guys is totally unreasonable and therefore nagging.

As for compliments some people (not me) find it difficult/ embarassing to accept a compliment. Or, she may really think you're lying just to make her feel better. Like when my mate went bald when she was getting chemotherapy and her bf told her she looked beautiful - pissed her off cos she clearly looked her worst ever.

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Originally posted by Zombie0729 Jason, go after the girl you've had the longest crush on. go after the girl you've felt so physically attracted to for the last couple years. let me know where you stand. it sucks you guys are putting down ideas because you've NEVER heard them before. the idea i gave him about being busy is because really attractive girls are inendated with guys that are willing to give up everything for them the second they get the chance. make yourself worthy, make a girl want you, make a girl chase you. quit taking such submissive roles in a relationship! it will get you no where and no one will be happy. if you lived near me i'd bring you out tonight. i would be able to physically prove to you a multitude of ideals you probably won't understand without me talking about the pyschology behind. look at your life right now. because when i looked back on mine, i hated the fact that i dated the same type of girl all the time because i realized it was the type i was attracting. i hated being stuck in a spot where i didn't know how to better myself. if anything i'm applying ideas in this thread to help guys out who don't "get it" . you can write me if you have any questions. @email.com

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i know exactly what you're saying because i'm a smart guy and i am certain that it works...what i'm saying is that women play stupid games a lot and really i don't feel like i have to play them to keep a girlfriend or to trick her into thinking i'm something i'm not. i'm not putting down what you're saying at all...i'm just saying that i'm sure they work, but how can you establish a real relationship on pretending to be something that you're not? i've dated lots of types of girls and i've been attracted to lots of types of girls and i've never had any real reason to try and pretend i'm too busy or something like that to make them like me more. if anything i think that its guys that think that like that have turned a large majority of women into man eaters that do all the same things they've had done to them.

what i think it all really comes down to is be confident, show them you love them, and don't be overly needy...

maybe that's what you're trying to get at, but its a choice someone has to make not something they can pretend to do...

I suppose that before I take female advice from men, I need to see the smoking hot women their advice has attracted to them.

Otherwise it's like getting health and workout tips from scrawny bitches / fat asses.

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Originally posted by Zombie0729 make yourself worthy, make a girl want you, make a girl chase you. quit taking such submissive roles in a relationship!

this is something i agree with.

Being an overly needy guy can lead to your ultimate destruction. You have to maintain your own entity while being with a woman. She needs to know that you are doing your thing, but you're also happy to be with her.

like jason is talkin about, show her you care.....and so on.

but playing the submissive role isn't how it should be. You either have a low self esteem or a small pen0r

play it equally, i guess that's me being idealistic. But the closer to the middle a relationship is, the better.

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