Thank god I was raised by a man.

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Originally posted by Orbax forgiveness is an act , not a feeling. You never FEEL like they are forgiven or that you want to. You do it, wipe the slate clean, and stfu. Its like when guys get in a fight and afterwards they shake hands. That shaking of hands means everything is cool now. You dont get to bring it up again. I think part of this is...and Slylee I know you will love this, is that women have MUCH less emphasis on things like honor, obligation, duty, etc... growing up. To men, its a death sentence in the business and interpersonal worlds to not be able to show honor, commitment, etc. Girls get away with a lot of stuff that men would be tarred and feathered for. Its why guys tend to think women are bad drivers. They are oblivious that what they are doing is wrong half the time, and once you explain that courteous driving suggests you _______ they dont care. It is hard to blame them a lot for doing such things, but man when you have to do it all day long its hard not to get angry that they cant do it half the time you do. Hows that sly?

was i supposed to be mad or disagree with this or something? lol

you just described my dad by the way, who played a huge role in my upbringing despite my parents being divorced so

2 years ago you would have said

Let me guess the only honor your gf would have if you could ever get a date would be to let her wash your feet and then put hers in front of the oven. Pig.

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Originally posted by colonelcrisp if you insist on forgive and never forget, you just want to keep them around so you can make them feel like shit about what they did for a while longer, which makes you no better than they are. maybe even worse...

ya whats your point?

lol jk alls im saying is forgetting something isnt always a CHOICE you can consciencely make. like the holocost for example you think people forget that stuff. ok an extreme example but you get the point

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youre comparing the holocaust to...

nevermind

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Originally posted by Spike ya whats your point? lol jk alls im saying is forgetting something isnt always a CHOICE you can consciencely make. like the holocost for example you think people forget that stuff. ok an extreme example but you get the point

not literally being unable to consciously recall events. Forgetting in the sense as its "Forgotten" like racist jokes when your sisters husband is around. Its just gone from things you get to talk about.

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Originally posted by Orbax 2 years ago you would have said Let me guess the only honor your gf would have if you could ever get a date would be to let her wash your feet and then put hers in front of the oven. Pig.

you're still a sexist pig...but i just didn't disagree with what you posted there

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone

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Originally posted by Orbax not literally being unable to consciously recall events. Forgetting in the sense as its "Forgotten" like racist jokes when your sisters husband is around. Its just gone from things you get to talk about.

ahh gotcha

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i don't know about you enferno, but i'm really close to filing for divorce. she just doesn't forgive or forget. if she didn't bring it up all the time, i'd think we would be o.k. still, she doesn't drop it. every conversation includes a mention about it. she's doing everything wrong. i need a wife who's in the present and forward-looking not someone who's stuck in the past. i advise you to forget about it, if both of you are still willing to maintain your marriage.

Last edited by Spacey Orange on Jun-17-2007 at 04:14