^^^ good suggestions. I am keeping my eye open for a place, I think a bit of a break is definitely in order. At least show I mean business, coz I don't think she takes me seriously. Several times when I said I was gonna leave her, she said that marriages are made in heaven and I wouldn't leave. I asked her about marriages that are made in heaven but turn to hell, how do they end? to which she replied that marriages that turn to hell can be saved only one way.

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No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven don’t want to die to get there. And yet death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should be, because Death is very likely the single best invention of Life. It is Life’s change agent. It clears out the old to make way for the new. Right now the new is you, but someday not too long from now, you will gradually become the old and be cleared away. Sorry to be so dramatic, but it is quite true.

--Steve Jobs (1955 - 2011)