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Originally posted by JayD Lost it when I was 14 with a girl that was a virgin also. We kept talking about it for a while and then it just happend a couple of months later. Do I regret it? Nope. Here's why. - Expierience it while you can because you never know what will happen to you tomorrow. Live life to the fullest and expierience as much as you can. - It was good to expierience - She was beautiful and she wasnt just some slut - There's a big difference between casual sex and having sex with somebody your in love with. In a way you still get the loosing virginity feeling all over again when you have sex with somebody you love. - Be Safe & Cautious I still bump into her every now and then. We dont really talk or say anything to eachother when we do see eachother, but thats since we were both really young when it happend (I think she was 13 at the time). It really awkward having sex with somebody even now and when the relationship ends you still have the awkwardness sometimes depending. Things change and people change. Dont look at things one sided when you think your ready to make that choice. There's alot of people that wait until there married for sex and end up getting a divorce. Same thing as if your in a relationship with somebody and you do it, and you break up. Sex can either make or destroy relationships. Sometimes it brings people so close and they love eacth other alot more than if they didnt have sex. Sometimes you have sex and you dont want anything to do with the partner anymore. It may seem irrational but thats how things are. Its always good to be expierienced so if that right person comes along you know what your doing. JaY

not a slut my ass, she was probably blonde

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Originally posted by mndeg not a slut my ass, she was probably blonde

Why would she be a slut? Because she lost it when she was young? LOL, I guess that makes 75% of america's population sluts.

JaY

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Originally posted by Eugene NO! I disagree completely! If you're an old virgin, you deal with MORE emotional crap. You realize your worthlessness, the fact that you're a loser. Yes, there is something wrong with being a virgin -- and I admit that I am (recently turned 22). You lack experience, you're too timid around girls, you have little social confidence. These things are usually related. And I'll be the first to admit that I have these issues. But you want to know the truth? I just haven't met the right girl yet -- and I've never had a real girlfriend. I had a chance to lose my virginity to a slut -- yes, I had it, but I didn't. Who would respect himself after this? This would have been a terrible "first time." If I were to look back on this as my first time, that would make me feel even more worthless than I feel now. So, what's better: The feeling that you're a loser because you're still a virgin at 22, or the feeling that you're a loser because you had your first time with a dirty slut? Not that there's anything wrong with sluts or "easy" girls... I feel they're an important part of society (and plus, there are girls who simply love and enjoy sex, and this is great -- but for some reason society labels them as sluts; the one I was talking about, though, was a real slut).

I'm almost 18, have had a fucking bizarre life, not what happens to your average teenager, I work Part Time, have good friends, go clubbing often, have a wiked time, have had 2 girlfriends, no problem pulling.. so just because I haven't fucked someone @ the first opertunity i've had makes me a looser ?

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Last edited by mos man on Oct-19-2002 at 23:41

i'll never have sex.......ever!

haha at ^^^

yah i think one of the things you learn as you get older, esp coming from that crazy horny period during the teenage years is that shit gets over sexualized. you need to go into a relationship looking for a PERSON, and not just a vagina or whatever, cause youll get out what you put in.

when you are a virgin it seems like youll never get any, and you self reinforce that by getting all uptight and worried about it. just chill out and have a good time, sex isnt the only way|

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Originally posted by biznology haha at ^^^ yah i think one of the things you learn as you get older, esp coming from that crazy horny period during the teenage years is that shit gets over sexualized. you need to go into a relationship looking for a PERSON, and not just a vagina or whatever, cause youll get out what you put in. when you are a virgin it seems like youll never get any, and you self reinforce that by getting all uptight and worried about it. just chill out and have a good time, sex isnt the only way|

Word.. inanutshell

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Originally posted by mos man Word.. inanutshell Better way to enjoy yourself = my sig

a j and a porn vid keeps the doctor away|

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Originally posted by jploveparade Technaut's real reply to this thread:

wahahaha nice one jp

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hehe nice 1 jp

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Originally posted by BTG i'll never have sex.......ever!

i thought about becoming a monk-