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| quote: | | Listen to her, folks, chicks dig wimps who initiate long intellectual conversations and laugh at random acts of immaturity. |
diginut:
you seem to be very confident about this topic.. not sure if it is because of your personal experiences, or have been burned in the past (because you are that type of guy?) but i don't think it's fair to come across so bitter sounding to many of the guys on here who might be like that. 
why? because some women DO like those kind of guys.
let's face it, folks. people are attracted to one another based on looks, at first glance. you don't go up to someone unattractive at the club because you think they might have a good personality. but of course, with time, personalities do shine through.. and the fake ones (guys OR girls) end up leaving if its just the pretty face they are after.
i, personally, would much rather find an intelligent, wacky guy who i can have fun with, trust, and enjoy time with, than a hotter than hell slut-boy who is going to fuck around behind my back, and leave me when something better comes his way.
at the moment i am dating (and living with) the love of my life.. he is all the characteristics that you claim females aren't attracted to. sensitive, caring, totally random and wacky (just like me), nerdy (like me.. in interests, i mean), etc. i couldn't ask for anything better. is he hot? hell yes. but that isn't what made me fall in love with him.
i mean, seriously.. i am finishing up my 5th year in computer science. why wouldn't i want to be with a guy who would initiate intelligent discussions with me? what should i prefer? sitting around talking about adam sandler movies?
it all boils down to an individual person (male or female), and his or her place in life. young kids/teenagers probably aren't going for a soul mate or a long time companion.. thus, they might be a lot more obsessed with looks. but i do think it's unfair to pretend like all women out there want a brainless asshole. that would be just as realistic as me making many very probable blanket statements about males.
(then again, i will admit, i am a bit different than most females out there. perhaps it is because i am a cyborg :/ )
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