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Krypton
83.798 g/6.022x10^23

Registered: Nov 2003
Location: Texas
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Apr-08-2004 01:44
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6_Duffman_9
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Duffman thrusts in the general direction of the button. Oh yeah!
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Apr-08-2004 06:25
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trancebrat
Terry Bones' wife

Registered: Oct 2003
Location: San Antonio, FL & Frameries, BE
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| quote: | Originally posted by torontotrance
YA THINK?
I'm not bitter, I'm fed up with shallow people. I was 224 pounds and out of shape in Feb of 2002. No girl gave me the fucking time of day and now that I'm 171 pounds and in remarkable shape and training for a marathon, now those same girls that never gave me the time of day want to talk to me because I'm better looking now. I'm still the same TTA as in 2002, just 2 yrs older but nothing has changed except my outward appearance. So those shallow people can go to hell imo, now all about the 6 pack, I have had 4 friends get engaged in the last few months and NONE OF THEM had a six pack and all are marrying hotties (i'm happy for them). My problem is society's lameness at outward appearance and I'm still fed up with those girls (one really wants me and I told her to get lost). |
First let me start with saying congratulations on losing the weight and good luck with your marathon. This is in no way an attack on you. I just felt compelled to respond to your post. I have friends of all shapes and sizes...this was simply written to make a point.
I understand and respect your post, but let's be honest here. There are way too many men in the world that want the perfect looking girl (or hottie as you called them) yet they don't want to be held to the same standards. Why can't a woman want a hottie for herself? There are naked women plastered all over TV, movies, and magazines. Guys obviously want something nice to look at...right? Why should a guy expect to be able to go after a beautiful woman and a woman not be able to go after a beautiful man? Yes, personality is important...I won't disagree with that. But how well did you get to know someone before you determined that you were attracted enough to them to actually talk to them? Exactly. I'm sorry, but if a guy expects me to stay in shape then why the hell shouldn't I be able to expect the same? Everyone needs to let go of the myth that guys are visual and women aren't. If you met a woman that had an awesome personality but weighed over 200lbs would you still be attracted enough to her to date her? If she approached you in a club would you let her engage you in conversation or would you blow her off? Before you call other people shallow what kind of women do you approach when you go out? I will talk to guys of all shapes and sizes, but I would be lying if I said that appearance wasn't important on some level. I am a very visual person and I will be the first to admit it. I like men that have muscle definition, but it doesn't mean that it is a prerequisite to date me. First and foremost I'm looking for the guy that sets off endorphins in my brain. Bottom line...I need someone that I can connect with mentally. He needs to be intelligent with an amazing personality, but if I am not physically attracted to the guy as well then we are left at being friends. Enjoying someone's company goes a long way, but if I am not attracted to him enough for there to be intimacy then things will never go any further. I can't force platonic chemistry to turn into something more than that. That doesn't make me a bad person and nothing anyone writes to me on here will make me feel bad for stating that. We don't choose who we fall in love with, and we can't control whether or not we find someone physically appealing. I fail to see how I would be shallow if I am visually turned off by someone that is overweight if he was attracted to me because I am in shape. Wouldn't that make the guy shallow as well? People are naturally attracted to positive people. I can almost bet that when you lost that weight and started taking better care of yourself that you started to project a better self image. Yes, I'm sure the women like what they see, but maybe there's a part of it that is because your confidence level increased. People are drawn to people that seem happy. When you lost the weight and got into "remarkable shape" you didn't feel better about yourself?
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Apr-11-2004 04:51
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