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Hehe, well if you cheated on her and she cheated on you, then I think we can all agree you have a completely worthless relationship and should just do both of yourselves a favour and break up.
Personally I couldn't deal with a girl that cheated on me; I'm the type that would demand to know all the details, then promptly wish I hadn't heard them as the next couple months of my life would be devoted to re-living those thoughts and working myself up into a bitter frenzy on a daily basis. The good thing about being really bitter is that I find it to be quite motivational though =P
Cheating is pretty much about respect; if you have it done to you then that person doesn't respect you nearly as much as they should to be in a significant relationship with you IMO and it's not worth continuing. Yeah, people make mistakes, but seriously, as a guy I've always managed to keep my dick in my pants no matter how fucked I've been and I'd expect similar resiliency from any chick I was dating. If I ever end up cheating on a girl it will be because I probably shouldn't be with them anyways, but I hope that will never happen regardless of circumstances.
On a side note, why blame the guy she cheated with? If he didn't know then it's totally harmless on his part, and if he did know then you should be thanking him for exposing the girl as the worthless bitch that she is and allowing you to move on with your life instead of wasting another minute with her.
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