Originally posted by Ben_Diesel
NO DOUBT! I feel sorry for any guy who is stupid enough to fall for that crap. Damn....so what does a brotha with a mad busy schedule and a disliking for the bar scene do?
I think it's generally accepted that online dating sucks.
Supermarkets?
Malls?
What the hell? Where do you find the good ones?
Ladies, chime in any time you feel like it. I'm not the only guy reading these posts.
i met my bf in the park. there was some music playing and i was dancing to it so he introduced himself. so sometimes it pays to walk up to random ppl in the park.
May-25-2004 23:13
Ben_Diesel
tranceaddict in training
Registered: May 2004
Location: LA
quote:
Originally posted by trancebrat
Hmmm...how in the hell did I miss this post?
I swear to god...that's the sexiest picture I've seen in a long time!
May-25-2004 23:37
trancebrat
Terry Bones' wife
Registered: Oct 2003
Location: San Antonio, FL & Frameries, BE
quote:
Originally posted by Ben_Diesel
I swear to god...that's the sexiest picture I've seen in a long time!
No need to swear...you can save that for later!
May-25-2004 23:40
torontotrance
I hath returned
Registered: Apr 2001
Location: Toronto
well she is my ubernet g.f (for now at least till she finds a real man)
May-25-2004 23:41
trancebrat
Terry Bones' wife
Registered: Oct 2003
Location: San Antonio, FL & Frameries, BE
quote:
Originally posted by torontotrance
well she is my ubernet g.f (for now at least till she finds a real man)
Real man...
*sigh*
May-25-2004 23:49
Ben_Diesel
tranceaddict in training
Registered: May 2004
Location: LA
quote:
Originally posted by trancebrat
No need to swear...you can save that for later!
How long did you have to work at becoming this good at flirting? Not that doing it online with a total stranger that's all the way across the States is a feat but if you're like this in person......damn!
May-25-2004 23:50
trancebrat
Terry Bones' wife
Registered: Oct 2003
Location: San Antonio, FL & Frameries, BE
quote:
Originally posted by Ben_Diesel
How long did you have to work at becoming this good at flirting? Not that doing it online with a total stranger that's all the way across the States is a feat but if you're like this in person......damn!
I'm really bad in person. I will be the first to admit that. I only flirt (in person) when I am attracted to someone's personality or looks. I don't want to give the impression that I flirt with everyone that I meet. I'm single so I figure what the hell...why not? Until someone ties me down...geesh...that sounded kinky. I'll stop.
May-25-2004 23:56
Ben_Diesel
tranceaddict in training
Registered: May 2004
Location: LA
If you were like this in person you would be an intimidating threat to most men. I would get a kick out of it personally but I figured you weren't really like this in person.
Try it sometime and keep the same attitude you have here and you'll have almost any guy you want in the bar, drooling. That is, of course, if he's not gay.
May-25-2004 23:59
apostrophe
'absent'
Registered: Nov 2002
Location: chicago | shanghai
I've got a good friend who does the online dating. But the thing is, since she started, she's 'only' been able to meet people online. It's like she's lost all confidence and interest in meeting persons in person. It's kind of sad actually, relying on a computer for your love life, when there's tons of nice guys out there for her to meet and actually start a relationship with. Plus, online, she's not really getting anything at all! She's one of those girls that really wants to get off, but never does because she is going online. Ahh well. I try to help her and set her up with guys. She sometimes just sits in a corner.
May-26-2004 00:00
butterfly
melissa
Registered: Apr 2002
Location: West CoCo, CA
quote:
Originally posted by Ben_Diesel
If you were like this in person you would be an intimidating threat to most men. I would get a kick out of it personally but I figured you weren't really like this in person.
Try it sometime and keep the same attitude you have here and you'll have almost any guy you want in the bar, drooling. That is, of course, if he's not gay.
yeah but drooling thinking about fucking you.... depends what your goals are. if you need sex, then it is very efficient...
May-26-2004 00:00
Ben_Diesel
tranceaddict in training
Registered: May 2004
Location: LA
quote:
Originally posted by butterfly
yeah but drooling thinking about fucking you.... depends what your goals are. if you need sex, then it is very efficient...
What the hell else is a bar for?
May-26-2004 00:03
trancebrat
Terry Bones' wife
Registered: Oct 2003
Location: San Antonio, FL & Frameries, BE
quote:
Originally posted by Ben_Diesel
If you were like this in person you would be an intimidating threat to most men. I would get a kick out of it personally but I figured you weren't really like this in person.
Try it sometime and keep the same attitude you have here and you'll have almost any guy you want in the bar, drooling. That is, of course, if he's not gay.
Ok....I'll be honest. I have learned throughout my years that when I flirt with people they tend to treat you better. I have proven to myself and to others that you can have some control on how people treat you SOMETIMES. Guys...girls...it doesn't matter. You can be nice all day long, but if you flirt with some people...basically make them feel attractive and interesting...they suddenly feel that way and start acting different. I don't flirt to the point of leading people on and I don't do it to be mean or with ill intentions. I am very direct, but I also know that people like attention...it's that simple. I try to make people feel important during my interaction with them. Even if they bore the hell out of me I try to find a way to make them interesting. When I actually like someone they know.
Go ahead and flame me.
EDIT: I am using the word flirt very lightly here. Don't overanalyze what I wrote. I don't mean that I come on to people...not at all.
