I try to talk to my ex. We write e-mails every once in a while. Nothing else, because she hates me (not for breaking up, but for finding a new girlfriend shortly after).

I'm trying to be friends, but I don't think she'll ever really want to be friends w/ me.

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Originally posted by dj_lane one of my ex's i still talk to, no sex becuase shes fucking someone else all the time

And don't you find a little embarrasing talking to her while she is having sex with some other guy?

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i am still good friends with all my ex's. reason being, most of my relationships start out as friendships first so we always had that friendship base after everything else fell apart. also none of my breakups were horrible, so it was easier to be friends afterwards because we didn't hate each other.

i have a few ex's back in NY that i still talk to quite often, and usually i see them whenever i go back to visit. most of them have serious girlfriends now.

my ex from my most serious relationship (5 years, and living with the guy) lives about 15 min from me and we still talk a few times a week and hang out maybe once or twice a month. it's great that we are able to remain friends because we spent so much of our lives together, and we still have a lot in common. i still go to him for a lot of advice and he comes to me, whether it's about relationships, money, life, jobs, etc...

i guess it's easy for me to be friends with all my ex's because i have always been "one of the guys", and i'm usually real cool about a lot of stuff that most girls wouldn't be.

no ex sex though. i'm very satisfied with my current bf.

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Originally posted by töbias Its due like on the 2nd of January. I can just see myself out with a lovely lady on new years eve chopped into chopped little pieces of choppiness and being called into hospital to welcome her baby girl. If that happens there will be no love for me...but probably a bit of good karma.

from what i understand, first babies are very often late so your NYE partying shouldnt be interupted.

i generally dont talk to my exes. there are a few who i could carry on a casual conversation with if i ran into them and others i might call out of curiosity to see what they are up to. but i cant think of one who i would want in my life.

my last ex was a real head fuck for me. i got all psycho when we broke up. he wanted so bad to remain friends but everytime i got near him i did everything i could to be mean to him. i think i hurt him a bit some of those times, and i was glad. i realized that we could never be friends cause seeing or talking to him brought back horrible memories and the worst aspects of my personality.

i admire people who can be friends with their exes but i will never understand it. my current bf who i love very much talks to his ex periodically and that seems to be fine for them. i just cant understand why anyone would want failed chapters of their lives to remain open.

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Originally posted by butterfly i just cant understand why anyone would want failed chapters of their lives to remain open.

...cuz some people are holding onto something that was once there.. I know of situations where a girl maintained contact with her ex from years prior and was all mature about it - but then went and fooled around with the ex after already being with another guy for a year.

Either way, while you or I may see it as failed chapters in that person's life, they may not have come to that realization yet.

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Originally posted by butterfly i just cant understand why anyone would want failed chapters of their lives to remain open.

i don't look back at my ex's and think of it as a failed chapter of my life. most of the breakups were mutual and sometimes even due to situations that were out of our control. i rarely look back and think, "boy we really fucked up"... sometimes people grow apart and are able to remain friends.

i do agree though, that if the breakup is tough or the people involved have ill feelings towards it, they should either wait a while (usually the standard is 6 months) to try to be friends, or not be friends at all.

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na, after the break i kinda just ignore her. i've only seen about 3/4 times in the last four months though.

though the last time i saw her she was apparently crying in the bathroom of the club over me pulling one of her mates


teach her the cheating ho

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No, I do not..nor do I really care to. I am the happiest I have ever been in my life so no need for me the dwell in the past with someone that was such a drag on my life

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i have sex with my ex all the time.