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Originally posted by ~Delicious~ Jay doesn't need someone like her, he can get better girls.... He deserves better

Ive had better....

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Originally posted by jester Everything in this country is illegal.

"Socialism is a philosophy of failure, the creed of ignorance, and the gospel of envy, its inherent virtue is the equal sharing of misery…" Winston Churchill

‎"If you have ten thousand regulations you destroy all respect for the law" - Winston Churchill

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Originally posted by Playa24_7 that girl sounds like a super bitch!!! tell her to get a fuckin life. it goes to show that personality comes first, if the girls an ass, she can fuck right off

Exactly...

And to those who say a guy must always pay. WHAT YEAR DO YOU LIVE IN?

UM i though people were screaming for equality here.

For the record I had no problem taking care of the night financially except that her behaviour and expectations were very reprehensable.

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Originally posted by jester Everything in this country is illegal.

"Socialism is a philosophy of failure, the creed of ignorance, and the gospel of envy, its inherent virtue is the equal sharing of misery…" Winston Churchill

‎"If you have ten thousand regulations you destroy all respect for the law" - Winston Churchill

OMG....Dump this chick big time.

BTW...u weren't even on a date...so ur not under any obligation to pay for anything. And if she was mature enuf she would have been straight out (not fresh) and said that she didn't have money for gas and needed a fill up.

No self respecting mature girl would act the way she has.
If I were you and got a call from her again....I'd be straight out and say your not interested. But if you want to safeguard yourself from possible gossip (and these girls use their looks to convince others of how they've been wronged)...then say your going through financial problems and can't afford to get into a relationship right now. That'll put a stop to it.

Unfortunately I've met girls like this...they use their good looks and then treat the guys like crap. It's not uncommon for them to spread the word... "what a chump", I'll get him to....

Word to the wise: If your only in it for the sex, then just remember your paying for it. Is she worth it?

Jayx1 I'm sure you can do better when it comes to a girl.
** And that's my opinion** if you want to take it.

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Last edited by b4k-oz on Jan-22-2005 at 18:53

its encouraging to see that most guys here seem to have some self respect. Or at least what they are saying seems to point to that direction.

So who then are the chumps out there who cave in? Surely they exist or women like this wouldnt exist.

Remember guys and girls. Usually the way that a certain type male or female that operates in society (In the dating context anyways) is a direct result of how much the opposite sex has been told by society to just accept it.

For years women were told to accept the situation that men gave them. Sadly I see the roles have largely reversed. What ever happened to the idea of equality (in the true sense of the word?) Last I checked, equality meant that men were involved.

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Originally posted by jester Everything in this country is illegal.

"Socialism is a philosophy of failure, the creed of ignorance, and the gospel of envy, its inherent virtue is the equal sharing of misery…" Winston Churchill

‎"If you have ten thousand regulations you destroy all respect for the law" - Winston Churchill

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Originally posted by Spam Way to go Jay, keep it up and teach others and maybe women will learn to respect men again.

What a dumbass comment to make. Your stereotyping as if all girls are like her. ***NEWSFLASH*** THEY AREN'T.
Or maybe these are the kind of girls you date....that's why you made such a stupid comment. Your gonna be a very lonely and single guy.

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PPS: She's still calling you because you got the upperhand on her, fems don't like it when a guy wins, she's seeing if she can play some more games and take the victory. Hope you're keeping at the right course of action

Since when are you the authority on females and games.
FYI guys play games too, and they leave girls stuck with the bill.
IMO she's just an airhead with a pretty face. She just hasn't figured it out that she's not wanted. She's too used to getting guys to leap for her.
When she figures it out....then she's gonna be catty about it, so watch out with the gossip tongue backlashes.

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These types dont describe ALL women but sadly it does describe the majority in the GTA.

Yes there are great women here but they are roses among many thorns.

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Originally posted by jester Everything in this country is illegal.

"Socialism is a philosophy of failure, the creed of ignorance, and the gospel of envy, its inherent virtue is the equal sharing of misery…" Winston Churchill

‎"If you have ten thousand regulations you destroy all respect for the law" - Winston Churchill

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Originally posted by Jayx1 These types dont describe ALL women but sadly it does describe the majority in the GTA. Yes there are great women here but they are roses among many thorns.

None of the majority of girls that I've met are like that. It's only a small percentage IMO. And I never make these girls my friends either. They hate it when a person is straight out with them.

Tho there prolly are thorns....maybe it's time to change your strategy. Maybe it's best to keep them guessing about your job and income....and don't offer that your a nice guy that pays for things either. Sometimes it's the mystery that makes the relationship better.

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Originally posted by b4k-oz None of the majority of girls that I've met are like that. It's only a small percentage IMO. And I never make these girls my friends either. They hate it when a person is straight out with them. Tho there prolly are thorns....maybe it's time to change your strategy. Maybe it's best to keep them guessing about your job and income....and don't offer that your a nice guy that pays for things either. Sometimes it's the mystery that makes the relationship better.

I already do these things. I run into these women a lot but the difference was that the circumstances around these were very extreme. These types are usually a but more subtle. I just cant believe how crass she was about it.

Like i said, if you know where to look you will find good people but the point is that you have to really avoid the thorns.

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Originally posted by jester Everything in this country is illegal.

"Socialism is a philosophy of failure, the creed of ignorance, and the gospel of envy, its inherent virtue is the equal sharing of misery…" Winston Churchill

‎"If you have ten thousand regulations you destroy all respect for the law" - Winston Churchill

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Originally posted by Jayx1 I already do these things. I run into these women a lot but the difference was that the circumstances around these were very extreme. These types are usually a but more subtle. I just cant believe how crass she was about it.

I think changing your strategy again might help...bc I can't see any women just coming up off the top of their head with a line like...
"i know you take care of ladies so i know you will fill my car with gas".

Most guys at this point would have done an about face and cut their losses. Not spend a few more hours with this slimy leach.
You should have trusted your earlier reservations...that way you could have spared yourself the trouble and the cost.

Just a suggestion.

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Originally posted by b4k-oz What a dumbass comment to make. Your stereotyping as if all girls are like her. ***NEWSFLASH*** THEY AREN'T. Or maybe these are the kind of girls you date....that's why you made such a stupid comment. Your gonna be a very lonely and single guy. Since when are you the authority on females and games. FYI guys play games too, and they leave girls stuck with the bill. IMO she's just an airhead with a pretty face. She just hasn't figured it out that she's not wanted. She's too used to getting guys to leap for her. When she figures it out....then she's gonna be catty about it, so watch out with the gossip tongue backlashes.

Hi, I'm well aware of the fact that not ALL girls are like this, like a typical salty liberal, YOU made the assumption that I believe it to be so ("He said black?! RACIST! Call the Firepeople and Policepersons!"). I made a general comment based on the observation that these days, many females have 0 respect for guys. And it's the guy's fault in 99% of the cases, it's because guys will let females walk all over them with the thought that women want a nice guy who will pay for everything, compliment them 50 times a night, tell them their entire life story by the end of the second date, and do anything that the female asks. NEWFLASH, they don't, these types of guys are boring. If a woman is truly interested in a guy, they could have a first date at Taco Bell and (assuming the guy isn't just a broke 'nice guy') she'd love the idea of eating some inexpensive Mexican food.

Since when am I the authority on female games? Since never, it's called an opinion, and it's an opinion I believe to be right based on conversations with many of my girl friends and observing their behavior when guys do certain things to them. Unlike many guys who will sit back and say "I don't understand", I like to think about WHY. And a female who plays games, HATES... absolutely, positively HATES to be trumped the way Jay trumped this bitch.

PS: I don't date these types of girls, I would not have even made plans with this chick after that horrible phone call.

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Originally posted by Spam ... like a typical salty liberal, YOU made the assumption that I believe it to be so ...I made a general comment based on the observation that these days, many females have 0 respect for guys. And it's the guy's fault in 99% of the cases... Since when am I the authority on female games? Since never, it's called an opinion, and it's an opinion I believe to be right based on conversations with many of my girl friends and observing their behavior when guys do certain things to them.

Firstly..I'm not a liberal and your a dumbass for assuming it....and that's my opinion. You don't like it....well then that's too bad.

FYI these days...many females have respect for men and viceaversa.
It isn't always the guys fault....and that's just your twisted way of seeing things. THAT'S WHY YOUR GONNA BE A LONELY GUY.

You have a right to your opinion...but others have a right to tell you that your opinion is totally twisted. AND IT REALLY IS.
I wonder if any of your so called girl friends are TA's....cuz if they are, then maybe they should read what you've just said about them. I know many girls who would be offended by your opinion. Way to go for reaching that number one status of dumbass comment of the year.

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What have I posted that would be so offensive? That girls who play games hate losing? That many guys don't have any self-respect and thus, get none in return from females? Females don't disrespect guys because they're bitches, they disrespect guys because they're given reason too. I've commented on general male mentality in today's day and age. For example, if a girl I met was giving me gifts on every date and paying for the dates, calling me daily just to tell me she loves me, pushing any and all plans aside any time I said I wanted to do something, after I made her pay for the date and drive me around all night, I'd have no respect for her, so why do guys think GIRLS respect that type of behavior?

Treat a girl right, but for God's sake, have some self-respect people. You won't see too much of this behavior from a Trance forum with 75% males. Most will try to act tough and SAY they aren't owned by women, but put a beautiful one in front of them and I'll bet the leash and collar get snapped on REAL quick-types.

I guarentee you this chick that Jay took out has a HUGE level of respect for him now (not that she'll EVER admit it) because he stood up for himself and sent her packing. She had none up to that point.