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Dervish
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You just keep holding onto that


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Ok so I have now done research on the effects of masculinity and here is what I have:
a. Not surprisingly, pornography reflects that conception of masculinity; men generally are trained to view sex as a realm of life in which men are naturally dominant and women’s sexuality should conform to men’s needs. (2)
b. 90,000 women are rapped each year in the U.S. (Macionis 236)

a. Men may swap insults, argue, or challenge each other’s strength or manhood. Homicides outside pubs and in the street are often the result of contests over male honor, according to a study of homicides in Victoria. (3)
b. the presence of others was the only predicted significant finding in relation to violence. Incidents containing third party presence were more likely to be violent. (9)

a. Grounded theory analysis of interviews with 22 incarcerated men identified three categories of themes in participants' accounts of intimate partner violence: justifications ('she disrespected me as a man'; 'a man has a right to control his woman' (5)

a. As men seek control over [other men], they lose opportunities for intimacy and trust. (Macionis 329)

a. A look at ways to deal with homophobia in the US Bible Belt suggests that the best strategy may be to "develop a shared bonding between masculine alienation & homophobic anxieties on one hand & as an entree into empathy for the rights of lesbians & gays on the other." (10)
b. “men don't have friends anymore. We don't dare expose our shortcomings to other guys--they would get uncomfortable and ridicule us just as they did in adolescence. And if they were kind and loving, our own homophobia would cause us to recoil.” (1)


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b. 90,000 women are rapped each year in the U.S. (Macionis 236)


My God! Missy Elliot and Lauren Hill are off the hook yo!

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Originally posted by kush paintings
b. “men don't have friends anymore. We don't dare expose our shortcomings to other guys--they would get uncomfortable and ridicule us just as they did in adolescence. And if they were kind and loving, our own homophobia would cause us to recoil.” (1)


I really disagree with that. I have mates I've told all sorts of stuff normally either dressed up in humor (as in the shortcoming/insecurity) or when your pissed either in a group where evryone is saying thats kinda thing or when your on the piss with one mate.

With no issues of homophobia, the fact that you know the person sitting across from you so well that you can basicly predict his responce to anything you say means that you can say anything. And when guys are pissed you can say anything, if you get a negative responce "hahahaha you fucking bought that you prick" you pretend it was a joke, easy.

I think humor plays a huge role in letting us(men) air things in a relatively reprocussion free enviroment. "many a true word spoken in jest" and all that.

But in genral I think men have no idea of themselfs (what they should be) and thats why they subscribe to populus belifs in what it is to be a man. Men (well at least me) tend to just think/live in the now. We don't consider our own feelings or think introspectively. We just act. Alot we are just doing what we think we should do rather than acting on our feelings or just plodding through life like we'd want to.

(ps. ain't it great drinking the night before (sorry day of now...) an exam your not too confident about?)


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I totally agree that not all men are as these examples describe them to be, simply the majority. You brought up a great point with humor as the center of male relationships. My opinion is that humor is used to ease tensions, as it is with racism, created by male competitiveness and dominance. Once again, however, I am not saying all male relationships are like this.


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