that is so filthy :S and to think i was just about to eat,, blah there goes that idea.

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Originally posted by squishymishy that is so filthy :S and to think i was just about to eat,, blah there goes that idea.

Do you at least get the joke now? I wasn't trying to be mean to you when I said that.


And lols @ no appetite. 'Meet Shay' can be used as a diet aid!

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igottaknow.. THanks u wanna be my friend? lol

Youre weird. I dont like weird.

im weird? =] nope not weird im UNIQUE and your jealous...
dont be jealous ill be your friend too

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Originally posted by Aquarian ^ good advice ^ Worst thing you can do is keep looking at it subjectively. You're only dealing with the surface here, not the root of the problem. Ask yourself why she wants to feel attractive - or why she wants you to say she's attractive. What are the motives behind it? Ideas like "talk to her and make her feel special" or "tell her how beautiful she is" may sound all girly-cute on paper, but it won't get you anywhere in real life. If she was so unattractive, you wouldn't be with her in the first place, and I'd bet there's a 99% chance she knows that very well. So why is she still feeling unattractive - or pretending she feels unattractive?

thanks. you're points are right on, her need to tell him how unattractive she feels is not out of closeness in the relationship. infact that just gave me a good idea. tomorrow i want you(thread originator) to approach your girlfriends BEST friends and ask if she has been complaining to them about anything related to her physical appearance. come back with answers, NOT SKUED and we'll evaluate. again thanks

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Originally posted by Noree he is very right! another trick that i actually learned from tom lycus...is using backdoor compliments! which means lets say ur girls says.....i think im fat...hunny what do u think? u dont say baby ur the most amazing thing blah blah but what u do say is "hunny forget what everyone says...to me ur perfect" this way u have her in ur palm for the most part....she will always be thinking hmmm somehting is wrong with me but atleast he likes me! its a bit more complicated but im sure u can find articles on this technique...i also will be hosting seminars for who ever is interested LOL j/k

thank you! your advice is applicable in your scenario. however our man here has already passed those simple tests and moved on to a far deeper test. i know the word test is probably throwing you off so i'll use... 'compatability factor' remember a basic drive in all species is the need for the best possible mate. although that is stripped down to its simpliest form, many things become clear when you look at it like that.

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Originally posted by Perfect_Cheezit Uh...what girl wants to feel ugly? People have been pinpointing it, its largely an ugly duckling type syndrome. I guess if you're suggesting that I wouldn't be with her if she wasn't pretty thats a point to take into consideration, but I've dated women before who weren't particularly attractive by other's standards. So I don't think its an insecurity issue for her thinking the only reason I'm dating her is because she's hot. That's not it - or if you want me to be objective, "It is my opinion that looking at the situation objectively that this particular instance is not the root cause"

no i don't think you're grabbing on to the right points in the right context. the fact that you DATE is enough to prove to her, as long as you're not a complete wuss, that you are attracted to some degree. what she needs to figure out now is what level of attraction does she feel with a submissive guy like yourself.

i know you think you're being a gentleman by catering to her needs and acting like a mature person in this relationship. this is very male logical. however you are not looking at this outside your own reality. quit defending her and ask her whats really going on in a stern voice. am i getting thru?

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Originally posted by squishymishy igottaknow.. THanks u wanna be my friend? lol

Go back to BCF...

haha oh please? wtf is BCF... such an overused abbreviation on this site hmmm...

In Soviet Russia BCF knows you.

lol ? am i in soviet russia nope therefore i d0nt care dnt talk shit 2 me c0z ur draining it mmmhmmmm this d0esnt need a reply so dnt bother

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Originally posted by squishymishy like you would be able to do that to me =\ ill curb stomp u!

k.


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