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Originally posted by Caela ok to clarify: my opinion of rough sex: jumping up on the guy when he's standing, aggressively pulling off clothes, totally spontaneous, biting/nibling, a little hairpulling when going at it from behind, one person forcing the other's hands above their head and taking control, grabbing their head and kissing them hard, etc. i don't know if you're thinking of s&m, but to me, anything past the forementioned (scratching to bleed, biting to leave marks, masochism, etc) is pretty hardcore...and a little wierd.

*noted*

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Originally posted by Coup Vlad wins. Flawless victory.

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Originally posted by Aristronica it becomes ritualistic once you grow up and become an adult, not some young 19 year old girl with a sex drive.

are you fucking kidding me? how old are you? we've probably been having sex for the same amount of time.

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Originally posted by Caela are you fucking kidding me? how old are you? we've probably been having sex for the same amount of time.

how old are you? & the way you said that you made it seem like you've been having sex since you were 14.

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Originally posted by squirrelly how old are you? & the way you said that you made it seem like you've been having sex since you were 14.

20 and 15.

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Originally posted by squirrelly you made it seem like you've been having sex since you were 14.

and what's wrong with that?

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Originally posted by Caela are you fucking kidding me? how old are you? we've probably been having sex for the same amount of time.

Caela, you're a pretty girl, with a good body. I'm sure guys throw themselves at you all the time, and you're more than eager to give it to them. That, however, does not make you an expert in the matter.

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Originally posted by Aristronica i was all about it when i was young and inexperienced. after a while you start to see what sex is really all about. it's more important than just getting off or busting a nut or doing something "rough". you need to take the time to enjoy the woman/man you're with and not make it some sick and twisted hobby/game. it becomes ritualistic once you grow up and become an adult, not some young 19 year old girl with a sex drive.

doing something rough isn't about 'busting a nut' or just getting off.
its only the nature of sex to not only be something to be experienced by two people in love as a way to communicate that, but seriously it can be fun too. and like anything else, its fun to do it slow and sensual sometimes, and its fun to just go nuts and be agressive others
again, variety is what keeps it new over a long term relationship

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Originally posted by Aristronica Caela, you're a pretty girl, with a good body. I'm sure guys throw themselves at you all the time, and you're more than eager to give it to them. That, however, does not make you an expert in the matter.

u calling her a hoochie?

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Originally posted by Caela ok to clarify: my opinion of rough sex: jumping up on the guy when he's standing, aggressively pulling off clothes, totally spontaneous, biting/nibling, a little hairpulling when going at it from behind, one person forcing the other's hands above their head and taking control, grabbing their head and kissing them hard, etc. i don't know if you're thinking of s&m, but to me, anything past the forementioned (scratching to bleed, biting to leave marks, masochism, etc) is pretty hardcore...and a little wierd.

right, so we were on different levels about this.

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Originally posted by Aristronica Caela, you're a pretty girl, with a good body. I'm sure guys throw themselves at you all the time, and you're more than eager to give it to them. That, however, does not make you an expert in the matter.

no one said she's an expert, we're stating opinion. what makes you think you know more than her?

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Originally posted by Aristronica Caela, you're a pretty girl, with a good body.

thank you

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Originally posted by Aristronica I'm sure guys throw themselves at you all the time,

sometimes.

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Originally posted by Aristronica and you're more than eager to give it to them.

not true

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Originally posted by Aristronica That, however, does not make you an expert in the matter.

i have had a couple of serious boyfriends (2+ years) and a few hookups...they have all been quite satisfied, thank you. i know what i'm doing.

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