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Originally posted by Zoso I'm pretty sure you are right. I think. Hell, I'm just intrigued by the idea of married + pussy. But yes. You are correct. However, in defense of ill women, it does not help when your wife has fibromyalgia and bad heart valves. Such is life, no?

u just have to do most of the work. lucky bitch. hahaha jk

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone

yikes this thread is turning ghey

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Originally posted by igottaknow yikes this thread is turning ghey

Put your dick away then, queer!

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Originally posted by jennypie Put your dick away then, queer!

oh stop it,your giving me that giddy feeling

LOL

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Originally posted by Slylee well i mean the honeymoon phase in the dating part...that definitely goes away.

If by honeymoon phase you mean the frantic urgent must have you right now sex period... then yeah. There's less urgency the longer two people are together, this is likely due to the fact that both feel certain the other person will always be there... kind of like how back in the day if you needed to pick up milk and a pack of smokes at 850pm you'd be in a mad dash to get to the store before it closed... but now the store's open 24/7 so milk and butts can wait until after Prison Break.

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Originally posted by RickyM you're just a shit version of Moral Hazard. At least he knows what he's talking about.

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Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN lol, i love it when moral feels the need to lay the smack down

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Originally posted by Moral Hazard If by honeymoon phase you mean the frantic urgent must have you right now sex period... then yeah. There's less urgency the longer two people are together, this is likely due to the fact that both feel certain the other person will always be there... kind of like how back in the day if you needed to pick up milk and a pack of smokes at 850pm you'd be in a mad dash to get to the store before it closed... but now the store's open 24/7 so milk and butts can wait until after Prison Break.

exactly. hahaha

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone

Dunno. it's a mixed bag. definitely a lot of work. of course, each person's "mileage" may varry quite substantially. Some creatures are made to live in captivity, others are liberal minds.

I am married for 7 years. First 6 years have been a rocky ride but mostly wonderful even with its ups, downs, getting adjusted to each other, etc. However, nothing prepared me for "snakes on the plane" - e.g. my wife FINDING JESUS. and I don't mean our gardener. And not your standard variety of Jesus. She happened to fancy the one from "Jews for Jesus" strain. Her being Christian, me being a Jew was already a fun mix. I'm not a religious person but I CAN'T TAKE PROLYTHESIZING (sp?) in any shape or form. With JFJ being not only offensive to my Jewish origins and traditions and beliefs but also being ONE OF THE MOST CULT-LIKE religions in existence, I was immediately without any warning under severe pressure. The quickness and depth with which situation spiraled out of control was mind-boggling.

This additional friction point created too many issues to list. We now fight almost on weekly basis about religious views and how I don't want to hear that sh!t and how my child should not be brainwashed since he's too young to understand the reasons or even meaning.

I must admit that person I loved very much has turned into someone I just accept for the sake of preserving a family. Our life is slowly turning to sh!t - which can be considered what many marriage are like. With a second child on the way, I'm a hostage of this situation. I would have never married my wife if I had known that she'd become such a religious zealot. So, in my eyes - this was definite "bait and switch".

My advise: try living together for several years before you tie the not. Besides, just because you exchange wows doesn't mean that your relationship is less meaningful as it is right now. Many of our friends chose live-in relationship over "formal" marriage. I think it also keeps your sub-conscious at least feeling like it's free - which I think can actually help your relationship at times.

Dunno. your mileage would definitely varry. Don't rush into it for all the wrong reasons - e.g. "she wants to have a wedding" or "we are both in love with tranceaddict.com and are active C0r whores"

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Lira, i'll let you know after next summer.

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Originally posted by emc^2 Don't rush into it for all the wrong reasons - e.g. "we are both in love with tranceaddict.com and are active C0r whores"

shit

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Originally posted by Slylee yea i agree. trust and communication are the most important things to me. and once you're in a relationship where there is solid trust, you can never go back to not trusting someone. it's the worst feeling in the world and i've been in several relationships where i didn't trust them, but i kept trying to work on it and thought it was me, and bla bla bla. if i feel like i can't trust a guy, i'm instantly less attracted to him. like even if i'm just dating a guy or interested in him and i feel like he's full of shit or whatever, it's like, "next" lol

amen to that. with FRIENDS i am like ok if they cant talk to me when there is a problem or whatever i just let them go. i dont invest in them anymore. i cant imagine being with a girl that cant talk to me. id let her go sooo quickly!

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Originally posted by Slylee the longer i'm with a guy, the better the sex gets for me. but then again, my longest relationship was shy of 3 years, so i really can't talk i guess. haha that's like nothing compared to married couples who have been together for 5+ years. but to me, once the honeymoon phase is gone, it's gone...so once it's gone, u might as well have been together for 5+ years, even if it's only 2. right?

im the same way but because that connection gets deeper. you get to know them so well and you are really excited to be able to please them. at least thats the way it is with me anyways.