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Originally posted by Taranis Being high as a kite also does wonders for your confidence levels.

Haha... My 1st serious relationship happened the night of my 1st pill. I bumped in to my manager from work (of the same age) at a hard trance club. Turns out we were both on our 1st pill but were trying to hide it (imagine the goss at work the following Monday). Anyway we admitted we were both fucked, even know it wasn't half obvious due to our lack of functionality, and started mackin. We turned in to a junkie couple, pilling twice a week out of no where. I used to be a self proclaimed "nerd" but completely changed after I hit the gear. I got out of it quick enough but my (ex) girlfriend stayed a junkie and I have only just finally gotten her out of my life. I don't regret takin the drugs because through a certain chain of events it got me where I am today including my current gorgeous girlfriend of 2 years. But it fucked me up pretty bad and lost a few friends and had problems with my family while I was on it. So to the OP if your not already on the shit try as hard as you can to stay away from it!! Alcohol is a much better (and more sociable) way of getting some temporary confidence!!

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Originally posted by Theresa If your schedule isn't busy, why don't you get a job? Seriously, I have never understood people like you. I have been in some pretty shitty situations, and some pretty tight binds, but I could never get myself to a point of complete hopelessness. 1. Go get a part time job and get your shit in order. No wonder you don't have a social life... people don't want to hang out with a whiny, poor ass, lazy person. 2. Clean yourself up. Get a stylish hair cut, and some nice clothes. Practice good hygiene, and wear some cologne. 3. Get a gym membership. Not only will this make you good with the ladies, it will boost your self-confidence, and it will make you feel better overall. Not to mention, working out helps with seratonin levels, which will help you out with mild depression. 4. Quit being unrealistic. A quality woman isn't going to be found at a "single woman store". You don't want to be doing something "futile", then quit staying at home and wanking to pictures online, and get the hell out and meet some people. Go places where people flock to (like clubs and bars), or maybe join some teams or groups at school. You aren't going to find a chick when you're all huddled up in your room. 5. Stop feeling bad for yourself and take control of your life. You're the only one who can make it better, and right now, you are making yourself feel like shit. Do something about it, and don't pity yourself because you're a dumbass. Nobody likes to hear someone whine about how tough life is when they are the sole reason their life is tough. 6. Be positive. Mind over matter. Seriously! You would be surprised at how much your life and mindset will change if you simply force yourself to think about things in a more positive way. Not to mention, people want to be around others who are happy and positive, and will go out of their way to avoid people who are negative. 7. Don't underestimate yourself. Sure, it's all easier said than done, but if you actually try, you can do it. Many others have, why can't you? Taking the risk, and putting up with a little hard work is worth the great benefits in the end. Don't give up before you even start. 8. Stop being such a total creep ass, and stop taking photos of unsuspecting chicks. That is weird, abnormal, creepy and wrong. Stop it.

Well first of all, do you know any good methods of getting a first job in over 4 years with about 5 to go for the degree? As far as the cleaning is concerned, you probably never saw me before so there's no place for judgement. I always keep clean and don't wear crap clothes unless you mean shorts whenever the temperature is higher than 15°C/59°F. The groups/teams at my school are mainly interest groups. I am a part of several and attend their meetings, though it's almost like another class with the amount of lecturing the management of those groups do. I can't be confident without an income so thsi is what I need to work on first & foremost. Chances are you saw my CV/resume in my previous post; is there anything else you think I should put on there that may convince potential employers that I am the person for the job?

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Originally posted by ali92 Well first of all, do you know any good methods of getting a first job in over 4 years with about 5 to go for the degree?

if you really have no work experience, unless you have connections it may be a bit tough to get a nice paying first job. you're going to have to bite the bullet like most teens do and work retail/fast food/any other place you see decently young people working. just drive around and look for signs saying "now hiring" (this usually means they are desperate for someone). there are plenty of jobs out there that will hire someone with no experience in any field.

if you're really lazy, you can even apply online to a lot of places. you seem like you need the $ asap though, so you're better off going in person.

then once you have a few months of experience, start looking for a newer, better job (don't quit your current job until you find a new one). during the interview most jobs will ask when you can start working, just tell them you are currently employed, but will give the 2 week notice once you get the job (or if it was a crappy job anyway that you don't care to put on your resume, you can just tell them you can start today and just tell your boss you quit).

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Originally posted by JD8180 if you really have no work experience, unless you have connections it may be a bit tough to get a nice paying first job. you're going to have to bite the bullet like most teens do and work retail/fast food/any other place you see decently young people working. just drive around and look for signs saying "now hiring" (this usually means they are desperate for someone). there are plenty of jobs out there that will hire someone with no experience in any field. if you're really lazy, you can even apply online to a lot of places. you seem like you need the $ asap though, so you're better off going in person. then once you have a few months of experience, start looking for a newer, better job (don't quit your current job until you find a new one). during the interview most jobs will ask when you can start working, just tell them you are currently employed, but will give the 2 week notice once you get the job (or if it was a crappy job anyway that you don't care to put on your resume, you can just tell them you can start today and just tell your boss you quit).

End of discussion, really.

is this revenge for that emo-corner.com thing a while back? Somebody needs to take away your shovel so you'll stop digging your own hole.

Haven't had a job in a while and have no degree? Starbucks. Waiter. Multi-platinum pop star. Buckle down and do what it takes. People are in far worse situations than you and they're doing what it takes to get out of it.

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Originally posted by 3F05Q People are in far worse situations than you and they're doing what it takes to get out of it.

too right.

This whole thread sounds to me like "oh woe is me, but I can't be fucked doing anything about it"

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Originally posted by Theresa If your schedule isn't busy, why don't you get a job? Seriously, I have never understood people like you. I have been in some pretty shitty situations, and some pretty tight binds, but I could never get myself to a point of complete hopelessness. (list)

I have actually done about half of the things on that list on the last 12 months or so, and still ain't getting pussy.

YOU'RE A FRAUD.

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Originally posted by Blahzaay Haha... My 1st serious relationship happened the night of my 1st pill. I bumped in to my manager from work (of the same age) at a hard trance club. Turns out we were both on our 1st pill but were trying to hide it (imagine the goss at work the following Monday).

Awesome.

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Originally posted by noikeee I have actually done about half of the things on that list on the last 12 months or so, and still ain't getting pussy. YOU'RE A FRAUD.

Because you say dumb shit like this, and are probably an insecure knob around girls.

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Originally posted by ali92 Well first of all, do you know any good methods of getting a first job in over 4 years with about 5 to go for the degree? As far as the cleaning is concerned, you probably never saw me before so there's no place for judgement. I always keep clean and don't wear crap clothes unless you mean shorts whenever the temperature is higher than 15°C/59°F. The groups/teams at my school are mainly interest groups. I am a part of several and attend their meetings, though it's almost like another class with the amount of lecturing the management of those groups do. I can't be confident without an income so thsi is what I need to work on first & foremost. Chances are you saw my CV/resume in my previous post; is there anything else you think I should put on there that may convince potential employers that I am the person for the job?

You're just looking for excuses. Instead of finding the flaws in the plan, just do it. If that means taking a minimum wage job to make some flow... do it. If that means going to a shitty ass team/group at school and listening to lectures - do it. Quit finding excuses for not taking action for your own life, and get off your damn ass and do something.

P.S. I made no judgments. I just gave some generic tips on how to get yourself out of a shitty situation.