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Originally posted by trewqy See thats the thing, cheating is only wrong when the other party finds out.

This argument is pretty indefensible. Cheating is wrong if, and only if, the other person involved in the relationship is against it.

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Originally posted by trewqy i dont think humans are monogamous in nature.

People who hold this belief should definitely look for partners that think the same way. I don't know anything about your life in particular, so please don't take this personally.

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Originally posted by Lira People who hold this belief should definitely look for partners that think the same way. I don't know anything about your life in particular, so please don't take this personally.

yeah my current girlfriend knows of my past from word of mouth. I give her freedom to meet other guys and vice versa. And thats why i am still with her after 2 years. And no havent cheated on her..well yet.

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Originally posted by trewqy You might not agree with my point of view, but i dont think humans are monogamous in nature.

I don't have any problem with people who mess around when both parties agree to it beforehand. But the ones who pretend to be monogamous while fucking around with other people are shitbags, and I won't pretend to have respect or sympathy for them. Yeah, right, it's all wonderful while nobody who would get hurt has found out about it, but how many times do cheaters think "Oh, no one will find out" and then someone does? Quite a bit...

With regard to monogamy / polyamory / whatever, do whatever you want: just don't lie about what it is you're actually doing.

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people who cheat on their SO with someone else, and then end up dating that person. makes no fucking sense to me

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Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles I don't have any problem with people who mess around when both parties agree to it beforehand. But the ones who pretend to be monogamous while fucking around with other people are shitbags, and I won't pretend to have respect or sympathy for them. Yeah, right, it's all wonderful while nobody who would get hurt has found out about it, but how many times do cheaters think "Oh, no one will find out" and then someone does? Quite a bit... With regard to monogamy / polyamory / whatever, do whatever you want: just don't lie about what it is you're actually doing.

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I think the thing the bothers me the most about cheaters, is the lies that comes with it.

Typically, if you're cheating, then it isn't known amongst all parties, and subsequently results in lies being told. I don't think that the actual cheating bothered me so much with my ex, as much as the lies he told me to do it.

I hate liars.

Ya'll would make one fucked up version of Trapped In The Closet.

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Originally posted by Frenchie Ya'll would make one fucked up group of people Trapped In The Closet.

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