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SYSTEM-J
IDKFA.

Registered: Sep 2003
Location: Manchester
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| quote: | Originally posted by Teh Jim
Are you one of those people that get up in arms when someone says "how you going?" as a greeting when they're not really asking the question? or when they say "see you later" when you know they won't? |
No. I don't give a shit about those things, and you're missing the point.
| quote: | Originally posted by bananas
what the fuck is that supossed to mean? do what his told? that is a rule of etiquette.
by that logic we're eating with cutlery because we're told so, and if we don't want to be spineless fucks we should eat with our hands?
why do you say hello to your boss, or your teacher? it's not like their your friends, so what, are you a spineless fuck? |
And so are you.
As I've said, I shake people's hands. I don't think the act of shaking a hand is spineless or wrong. So that's every single one of both of your analogies scratched off. What I'm annoyed at is when people somehow think less of you if you shake with your left, my natural hand. I'm performing an act of social etiquette, but because I'm ever so slightly deviant from what everyone is used to I'm being rude or disrespectful. I have to alter my natural hand for 90% of the world. When I make someone else do it, I'm being disrespectful.
People who get so self-righteous about others not rigidly obeying arbitrary conventions seriously need to pull that pole out of their ass. Christ, we were drawing parallels with obeying the traffic lights earlier in this thread, as if shaking a hand correctly is a matter of life and death. I'd have thought we'd stopped caring in the 21st Century.
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Tony Morello
The Renegade Master

Registered: Apr 2001
Location: Calgary, Alberta, Canada
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May-14-2008 12:18
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SYSTEM-J
IDKFA.

Registered: Sep 2003
Location: Manchester
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May-14-2008 12:19
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UWM
mandroid
Registered: Mar 2001
Location: Here
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| quote: | Originally posted by SYSTEM-J
As I've said, I shake people's hands. I don't think the act of shaking a hand is spineless or wrong. So that's every single one of both of your analogies scratched off. What I'm annoyed at is when people somehow think less of you if you shake with your left, my natural hand. I'm performing an act of social etiquette, but because I'm ever so slightly deviant from what everyone is used to I'm being rude or disrespectful. I have to alter my natural hand for 90% of the world. When I make someone else do it, I'm being disrespectful.
People who get so self-righteous about others not rigidly obeying arbitrary conventions seriously need to pull that pole out of their ass. Christ, we were drawing parallels with obeying the traffic lights earlier in this thread, as if shaking a hand correctly is a matter of life and death. I'd have thought we'd stopped caring in the 21st Century. |
So should visitors to foreign countries blatantly disregard their cultural idiosyncracies as well?
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May-14-2008 20:48
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SYSTEM-J
IDKFA.

Registered: Sep 2003
Location: Manchester
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May-14-2008 21:59
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