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Psyshell
Supreme tranceaddict

Registered: Dec 2012
Location: Melbourne
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Quite possibly, but hey you're better at predicting this forum than me.
| quote: | Originally posted by Sushipunk
Are you on Austudy now though? Austudy + rent assistance + a part time job (even not many hours) is enough to live on while studying, plus a little extra if you're careful with your spending. |
Right now I'm on "can live at home youth allowance". Concidering that my mother is thinking of moving out, sitting on centrelink and not giving me any additional money (even though with 130 a week rent that leaves me with 5 dollars spare a week... on a 35 a week food budget.... so it's not exactly spare) I'm currently looking into getting upgraded to cannot live at home. The fact that I get yelled at when I buy food that's both cheaper and healthier than what she tells me to buy with my own money (but apparently it's bad because it's easier to cook) and just a bunch of other things means I'd really prefer it never to live at home again. I mean hey, some of my stupidest forum posts have been just after I've been yelled at for several hours over absolutely nothing. E.g. "you're not allowed to buy us more plates, we have 3 already and if we get any more you're not going to do the dishes". If you think I'm nuts you should see my mother. It's very lucky I stopped taking her seriously since I was 15. Or my personal favourite(s) is in the last month, she's tried to steal 10 dollars of vodka from me and then manipulate her way out of it (I didn't let her), she's just finished watching a science program about how bad it is to sit at a computer for more than 50 minutes straight. I mention the science is mixed and she just loses it and gets really angry for 30 minutes. It then turns out she actually just wanted me to stop listening to music and go do the dishes. When I point out that's extremely deceptive of her and "that's why I don't trust you" she absolutely loses it. My other favourite one is how I always used to eat lots of food before bed to get to sleep easier, and for about 2 years that got me yelled at every time I did it. Then around 2010 the latest version of her favourite diet book came out saying that eating before bed helps you sleep... something I knew all along.
I'll be fine, but constantly being yelled at (for 30 minutes to an hour, not 5 minutes either) over various things does make it a fair bit harder to study/work properly.
Centrelink payments source:
http://www.humanservices.gov.au/customer/themes/students-and-trainees
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Last edited by Sushipunk on Dec-30-2012 at 06:31
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ziptnf
Programming your future

Registered: Jun 2008
Location: Louisville, KY
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Dec-30-2012 06:40
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Sushipunk
Flickering, I roam

Registered: Sep 2006
Location: Chateau Verdafloor
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| quote: | Originally posted by Psyshell
Right now I'm on "can live at home youth allowance". Concidering that my mother is thinking of moving out, sitting on centrelink and not giving me any additional money (even though with 130 a week rent that leaves me with 5 dollars spare a week... on a 35 a week food budget.... so it's not exactly spare) I'm currently looking into getting upgraded to cannot live at home. The fact that I get yelled at when I buy food that's both cheaper and healthier than what she tells me to buy with my own money (but apparently it's bad because it's easier to cook) and just a bunch of other things means I'd really prefer it never to live at home again. I mean hey, some of my stupidest forum posts have been just after I've been yelled at for several hours over absolutely nothing. E.g. "you're not allowed to buy us more plates, we have 3 already and if we get any more you're not going to do the dishes". If you think I'm nuts you should see my mother. It's very lucky I stopped taking her seriously since I was 15. Or my personal favourite(s) is in the last month, she's tried to steal 10 dollars of vodka from me and then manipulate her way out of it (I didn't let her), she's just finished watching a science program about how bad it is to sit at a computer for more than 50 minutes straight. I mention the science is mixed and she just loses it and gets really angry for 30 minutes. It then turns out she actually just wanted me to stop listening to music and go do the dishes. When I point out that's extremely deceptive of her and "that's why I don't trust you" she absolutely loses it. My other favourite one is how I always used to eat lots of food before bed to get to sleep easier, and for about 2 years that got me yelled at every time I did it. Then around 2010 the latest version of her favourite diet book came out saying that eating before bed helps you sleep... something I knew all along.
I'll be fine, but constantly being yelled at (for 30 minutes to an hour, not 5 minutes either) over various things does make it a fair bit harder to study/work properly.
Centrelink payments source:
http://www.humanservices.gov.au/cus...ts-and-trainees |
Yeah, that sucks, and sounds pretty heavy. And I'm actually really sorry to hear about it. My mum is kinda nuts too (not quite like yours, but in different ways). I moved out when I was 17 though, to go to Uni. Best thing I ever did, and you should seriously consider it. Does you mum really charge you $130 a week for rent? I know Melbourne can be expensive though...
If she ends up moving interstate, then you'll automatically qualify as an "independent" just by staying where you are, with your studies, and so your payments will increase by quite a bit. Couple that with a part time job and you'll be golden.
If she doesn't end up moving, then talk to Centrelink about it anyway. Say you have family problems, or what ever you like, but make them understand that you can't live at home, and they'll put you down as an independent on their books. I had to do it when I moved out, because my dad lives here in Brisbane and there was no fucking way I was moving in with him, lol.
Ideally, talk with a few of your friends and go and rent a share-house. Split the rent and bills, etc. It's quite a lot of fun, and not too expensive at all, if you can get 3-4 people together (despite some of my horror stories about share-housing, lol).
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