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Originally posted by jonSun A ghost cock.

Jeeze. That's funny, yet bad at the same time.

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Originally posted by NiteMer I don't think I've ever had that happen. I had one girl that I used to sleep with that could have ridiculous amounts of orgasms and sometimes increasing intensity as they went, but I know she didn't shoot across the room. What actually causes them? It must be beyond a girl being comfortable.

I'm not an expert on these things I might just point out early on.

Also, I'm going to get explicit below so shut your eyes if talk about sex offends you.

I find that most success in getting a girl to 'blow', my term for spraying this unique liquid, is using your hands. 2 at the same time can work a treat. And do it for hours and hours and hours. Well past the time when she is begging you for sex.

If you do this enough, and I'm talking 1, 2 or 3 hours of touching her every day or two, including a fair amount of your fingers facing upwards trying to pull towards your palm, 1, 2 or however many fingers will fit you are well on your way.

You'll find that alot of younger girls are not clitorally aware enough to make it work, they like it deep and hard, so touching their clitoris might actually be too sensitive for them to handle at first. But bear with it, it could take months to happen, and most of the time its matter of their mind being comfortable with your spending so much time there.

If a girl can have multiple orgasms there is a good chance she will be able to 'blow' if given enough work.

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The pulling towards the palms, I assume, is the digging motion as myself and friends have called it. Mainly G-spot stimulation.

I haven't had a long enough sexual relationship to achieve this, I guess. If you are talking months and beyond, definitely not. Good to know though.

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Originally posted by NiteMer The pulling towards the palms, I assume, is the digging motion as myself and friends have called it. Mainly G-spot stimulation. I haven't had a long enough sexual relationship to achieve this, I guess. If you are talking months and beyond, definitely not. Good to know though.

Like said earlier,

The pulling towards the palms is getting past the pelvic bone and curving towards the soft spot of the vagina.. This is where the "G-spot" is per say. It probably takes more time for some girls to get off that way than other's.

The thing is that it's supposed to trigger a urinating sensation at first.

Eh, don't be discouraged by the "months" thing.. While ur down there, try it out both way's.. Normal and then slip the idea of it in.. And see if there's any change in what happeneds.

That's what I'd do at least.

JaY

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Originally posted by JayD Like said earlier, The pulling towards the palms is getting past the pelvic bone and curving towards the soft spot of the vagina.. This is where the "G-spot" is per say. It probably takes more time for some girls to get off that way than other's. The thing is that it's supposed to trigger a urinating sensation at first. Eh, don't be discouraged by the "months" thing.. While ur down there, try it out both way's.. Normal and then slip the idea of it in.. And see if there's any change in what happeneds. That's what I'd do at least. JaY

I always use that technique, I was just curious. Both ways?

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I think I may have to take a 1 month sabbatical from talk about sex on ta, no-one will take anything I have to say on anything else seriously if not.

As for the pulling in thing, try some variations:

One finger pointing upwards, and one from the other hand pointing downwards, doing exactly the oposite thing.

Pull back the skin around the clitoris, and play with your finger or tongue whilst doing the pulling motion with the other hand.

Going completely crazy with your fingers inside her.

Shit, I'm going to have to go home for lunch I think....

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Ok damnit, this is how it is. Trust me, I know. You gotta know how to kiss first. Loosen up those lips and keep 'em soft & supple.

Orgasms for chicks are all mental, unless you have a tiny peter, then you better make damn good use of mood, setting, finger(s), and tongue.

Any girl can have an orgasm, regardless of that "I've never had an orgasm" bs. Don't be a asshat and rush it. Take your time and be a gentleman. What's your hurry anyway? Chances are the only hurry you're going to have is trying to get it back up again before she falls out of the mood...

First things first: you gotta treat her like a lady. Take her to dinner for some good food (no damn McDonalds) and entertain her with your charm. Please don't mistake charm for being a self-absorbed prick. Be yourself, cool, calm, & lot's of smiles & laughs. Do something cool afterwards, maybe a nice drive chilling to some trance, maybe some cuddle time in front of the tube, etc., etc. Whatever you do, just DON'T RUSH IT. It ain't goin' nowhere, unless she has a curfew, then you probably shouldn't be hooking up with her anyway.

Forget about yourself for a while. I know this is hard for some of the self-absorbed, pretentious types. Do it anyway. It's all about her. She probably doesn't want to get busy in your dirty, stanky ass apartment, so clean it up. At least hide your dirty dishes in the dishwasher. Get some greenery up in there and some good lighting. Dimmer switches are your friend. Candles will work as well.

Alright, so the time is now. Explore her body (minus the vagina for now) and keep tabs on her reactions. You can tell when she's ready when you feel the heat... Don't forget to talk and laugh a little. Don't be all serious and once again, don't be in a hurry! Communication is the key! If you can't communicate, then you won't get what you are expecting.

The missionary position spells imminent doom if you aren't a porn star. Ok, you aren't a porn star. Get that through your head now. You can work your way up to that later. Doggie style is not the best way to start it off, unless that's the way she wants it. With the vast majority of chicks, she needs to feel comfortable and be able to trust you, so don't do some dumb shit like spanking her ass right off the bat. Hold her close and get some passion flowing. Everything else will follow. Remember, you're making a first impression, so don't fuck it up by trying to be "the man." Hell, ask her to put the rubber on for you. That can be a lot of fun if you both are hitting it off.

Anyhoo, don't try to be something you're not. Be yourself and keep it real. Don't expect too much the first time. Trust and communication are the keys. Don't blow it. And if you do, consider viagra.

uhhhhh...so where are the women?

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Hmmm... Well I haven't had that much problem with girls havind an orgasm, now I'm sure you might be asking "do they fake'm?" No! you can tell when it's real or not, perhaps alot of fore play might need to be added, for women I believe it's part mental and leading on to it. Girls are suducive yes... but men can tease them in a certain way that almost stimulates them, I've heard from some women the play has to even start a few days before hand, you don't give'm what they want when they want it. he he... so when a girl has sex at that young an age it's just the sex and perhaps they haven't experienced "Romance", just a personal thought.