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Originally posted by Theresa Basically the question is, what should Girl do? Should she try and be friends, hang out with him and see how it goes? Or is it doomed to end in disaster? Should Girl cut Guy out of her life permanently? Thanks for the thoughts!

easy.
lose the wimp.
its no fun to hang out w/ a person who is always looking for your approval and willing to be whipped in exchange for the honor of being in ur presence.

lol i got chicks that treat me like this. just act friendly but dont lead him on and tell him to do the best thing he could - see other people!

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Originally posted by Masonious It doesn't make you dumb in the least, just overly optimistic that most dudes aren't as crummy as they really are. Sounds as though you're like most women and fell for the jerk. I guess that's what i mean by insane, i have no idea what's going on in your heads that makes an ASSHOLE like that attractive. >.< Yeah, and don't say a word to that assclown. don't give him ANY attention. Just cauterize what little relationship you have left and only hangout with non-assholes. You'll be way happier

The sad part was that in the beginning he wasn't the asshole. The first 2 years of the relationship were awesome. Once he got involved with drugs, that's when he became a prick.

Theresa if you were together for 3 years, it obviously means you are very close each other, he loved you, and you loved him, perhaps he still loves you, i think so...you just have turn over a new leaf cause it will lead to nowhere and nothing, if you broke up there were reasons for that, and still being friends after a 3 years relationship is impossible cause he will still want more...explain to him...

My advice is to cut him loose(or is it lose). it just end up up badly, there's no way in hell it will work out well.


Off topic - Are women really offend by being called the C word over the net?!

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the c word makes me cringe for some reason...i dunno why. whenever someone uses that word in front of me i instantly get really turned off...it's classless. i mean i use swear words, but only around certain people and i dont think there is any other swear word that sounds worse than the c word, in my opinion. especially when chicks say it...oh my god, can we say trailer park?

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone

but if one of the guys your friend with online said it to you in a thread as a joke, would you be pissed? like the other girl was.

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Originally posted by Michael19 but if one of the guys your friend with online said it to you in a thread as a joke, would you be pissed? like the other girl was.

me? I wasn't pissed.

And I don't think Rob and I were friends when he said it to me and in honesty, I don't think he was joking when he said it. But if I recall correctly (IIRC!!! ), I was being a bitch to him before he called me the C word and I think I actually laughed when I read his response to my bitchiness. I dunno. It was a long time ago and really, no big deal.

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I haven't read the whole thread, but here is my 2 cents



-the guy wants to get into girls pants
-the girl, by being friends with guy, will feed him hope
-the guy will, no doubt, try everything he can to get into girls pants (i.e. emotional blackmail)
-girl will pursue other males(females?) & the guy will throw tantrums, as well as do everything he can to sabotage girls happiness

long story, short

it will all end in tears


if girl is smart, she will move on

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Originally posted by Echo of Silence me? I wasn't pissed. And I don't think Rob and I were friends when he said it to me and in honesty, I don't think he was joking when he said it. But if I recall correctly (IIRC!!! ), I was being a bitch to him before he called me the C word and I think I actually laughed when I read his response to my bitchiness. I dunno. It was a long time ago and really, no big deal.

I think we all hated each other a long time ago.

I just got some bad news about Guy.

He has been hanging around the places that my friend's and I hang out, and it has been just by chance that he has gone when I haven't. Anyway, I have pics and he is there with some of my girlfriend's.

So now I have to be careful with this.

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Originally posted by Theresa I just got some bad news about Guy. He has been hanging around the places that my friend's and I hang out, and it has been just by chance that he has gone when I haven't. Anyway, I have pics and he is there with some of my girlfriend's. So now I have to be careful with this.

Just try to treat the guy with some distance. He will get the drift sooner or later.

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