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Re: "I Love You!"
btw, very cool thread, Denys. 
| quote: | Originally posted by Aristronica
But ladies, have you ever uttered it without meaning it, just something cutsey to throw out there in a relationship. Maybe get the envy of all yours friends when you say it on the phone, etc.
What's your take on all this? |
i've had 3 boyfriends that i've said "i love you" to...
the 1st one was my first serious boyfriend who i dated for 5 years. i was very much in love with him and in some ways i still am... but more as a friend/big brother. i was with him from the time i was 15 until i was 20, so he was a huge part of my life and we went through a LOT together. the friendship and relationship we shared really influenced the both of us and helped shape us into the people we are today, and despite the terrible shit that we put eachother through, in the end we both agreed that our friendship was stronger than all of that.
the 2nd one... uhhhh... yikes. he came into my life at a very awkward time. i was really happy being single. i even told him when we met that i didn't want him to be my boyfriend, but things just sort of progressed and we moved way too fast. i never really loved him, but for a whole year i loved getting drunk and doing drugs with him. after that wore off, i began to see that we didn't really have anything in common... but i also felt stuck with him because we were living together and had just purchased a condo together. i was really out of control for a while, but it wasn't until i met Rob that i realized how bad things really were. i ended the relationship very abruptly, and once i was entirely moved out of the condo, i never spoke to him again.
the 3rd one (RJT) - after meeting through TA and going to a few shows together, we became very good friends. right from the beginning, we had an amazing connection and i felt so comfortable talking to him and telling him what was on my mind. we had a LOT in common and had a fuckin' blast hanging out with each other... and once i realized that i was happier around him than the guy i was currently dating (#2), i knew i was falling in love with him. it all happened so fast, and although our relationship started out in kind of a fucked up way, i don't regret one minute of it. it took me a while to say "i love you," because i had kind of a lot of baggage coming into the relationship, and RJT didn't. it was really hard to wait because i KNEW i was falling in love with him, and i knew he loved me... i just wanted to wait until he knew i meant it 100%.
almost 2 years later and i'm still very much in love with him. 
beyond that... i tell my mom and my brother that i love them. i tell my 2 best friends in NY that i love them (in fact some people think it's kind of weird because they're both guys... but they're like brothers to me and i love 'em to pieces). and even though i love the rest of my friends, i've only said "i love you" to 2 of them... and both of them are TAs, lol.
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