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Originally posted by Stylez ...Gawd no!!.. that would suck. I tried to get her into the Trance scene during our 4 yrs...but to no avail. She'd never come on here.

Ok my bad, very very sorry!!

I didn't wanna make you feel even more horrible.

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so stop trying. Its getting annoying.

and its getting annoying that people are still responding implying otherwise. those are the people im talking to, not you. thanks.

but, ok.

*leaves this conversation for good*

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Originally posted by sothis and its getting annoying that people are still responding implying otherwise. those are the people im talking to, not you. thanks. but, ok. *leaves this conversation for good*

Ok, I never told you to leave, first off. Secondly, you have to understand that the people you're "talking to" are speaking from their own perspective. I'm pretty sure that most of them are fully aware that guys hurt girls as much as girls hurt them. Thirdly, this being a public forum and all, since you didn't specify who you're talking to...your posts can be aimed, read by anyone, and responded to by anyone. I'm sorry for getting involved in "your" conversation. Next time use PM's or private chat...thats what they're there for.

Last edited by infinity HiGH on Apr-23-2002 at 20:55

Well said

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cant we just all agree on one thing: players, bad boys, bad girls, whatever, go BOTH WAYS. there are nice guys and nice girls, and there are jerks and there are bitches, thats what the whole world is all about.
nice guys get the nice girls
bad guys get the bad girls and also lure into innocent nice girls who either realize who they are with or turn bad
same goes for girls

no one ever is going to be able to solve this arguement because no one ever will trully have the experience of being on both sides
so cant we just all take a

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Originally posted by sothis I've found this: Being nice girl = having lots of nice friends Being nice girl = having lots of friends who are guys, who think of you as one of the guys, nothing more Being nice girl = something that no men say they want, ever. Being nice girl = attracting guy after guy who can view vulnerability, openness, honesty, and abuse/manipulate you for it, until YOU have been hurt so many times that you dont believe in love anymore. Being nice girl = life of effort & pain -yet another response from sothis, trying to prove it goes both ways

Where do you find nice girls???? If I had a NICE GIRL I would probably the happiest person in the world. I am sick of dealing with bitches. The nice girls that have a lot of guy friends most of the time they don't want anything more than FRIENDSHIP.

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Originally posted by dmcilwaine people play mind games cus thats just the way we are- animals its like wanting what you cant have, you want it but when you get it u dont want it.... know what i mean? people play mind games so the other person doesn't know what they're thinkin (ie "i like you") cus once they figure out that they can have the other person they dont want them anymore, its all bullshit, but thats how we are

gotta disagree i know a couple of people who do not do that.. like my Brother and his GF.. seem to be quite honest with each other..

I do not know, if my GF is playing with me, or what.. it drives me nutz.. maybe I am just simple minded, dumb or naiive, but i have mind games and i try my best not to do anything to that effect.. maybe i am not capable of it either ?!?

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Originally posted by Gucio Where do you find nice girls???? If I had a NICE GIRL I would probably the happiest person in the world. I am sick of dealing with bitches. The nice girls that have a lot of guy friends most of the time they don't want anything more than FRIENDSHIP.

nice girls are hard to find if all the girls you hang out with are bitches. you really have to look since nice girls are most of the time shy, quite, and not very popular so you dont notice them
you really have to look beyond your friend circle, and beyond girls you would usually go for. look for the quiet ones, that hang out with mostly girls and are kinda on their own.
also, you can work your networks. if you've got friends whom you dont really hang out with, they might have friends who happen to be nice girls

trust me, im speaking from experience. (im one of them what you would call nice girls and thats how i met my bf who was sort of the more popular kids in our high school, those who never associate themselves with ppl like myself and my friends)
there might be other ways of finding nice girls, but the above is also true, in most cases i would say.

good luck to you

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Originally posted by DuMonde TrAnCeR hehe girlfriends, hmm good things!!! fuckin ages since i had one like! anyway hehe. god help the women who ever tries mind games with me, mwuahhaahhaha!!!

getting a girl can be at times rather easy... not sluts or whores, but decent pretty ladies... U have to work your best, and if U really need one pretend Ur someone else. but those are relationships U know are going to end soon... it's just for 'fun' (god I hate the word when it comes to relationships but I guess dating for fun is a fact we might as well not try to hide)... so the question is whether it's worth to hurt someone or not.

so DuMonde, would U like to be "used" (American Pie 1 style )?

l8z!

hyp

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Originally posted by infinity HiGH Ok, I never told you to leave, first off. Secondly, you have to understand that the people you're "talking to" are speaking from their own perspective. I'm pretty sure that most of them are fully aware that guys hurt girls as much as girls hurt them. Thirdly, this being a public forum and all, since you didn't specify who you're talking to...your posts can be aimed, read by anyone, and responded to by anyone. I'm sorry for getting involved in "your" conversation. Next time use PM's or private chat...thats what they're there for.

ahahaha, PWN3D.

gotta love logic.

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Where do you find nice girls???? If I had a NICE GIRL I would probably the happiest person in the world. I am sick of dealing with bitches. The nice girls that have a lot of guy friends most of the time they don't want anything more than FRIENDSHIP.

My problem exactly. Over 3 years, I've met 4 incredible girls, but all they ever want is to be my friend. Then they get together with jerks who hurt them.

*sigh*

It's just not fair.

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Man, I dun understand it. "Let's be friends" so then they can go and be with an asshole who treats them like shit and then they complain to us how they want a nice guy who is standing RIGHT in front of them staring them in the face. Why is love so BLIND?!?!?!?!