it'z Saturday nite .. get outta tha house!

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Originally posted by dEsidEL it'z Saturday nite .. get outta tha house!

no cause I got werk tomorrow.

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what works for me;

make eye contact a couple of times, then smile 2nd or 3rd time( an I am interested smile)
most likley you'll get a sign

cheers

I think your biggest mistake is that you're trying to pick up girls at dance clubs where the music is just way too loud and the lounge areas are small. If you want a higher success rate go to a lounge where people just go to hang out n shoot the shit, not just dance. Basically any club where the lounge space is bigger than the dance floor is a good rule of thumb. Dress nice, no running shoes and wear a nice watch. If a girl likes you she'll let you know, they always do. It's all about body language. Last thing, don't go looking to pick up bcuz that'll just make you look desperate and women can see that a mile away.

Btw, shouldn’t you be posting this in the chill out room?

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i dunno i very rarely pick up girls at night clubs....i wont even approach them unless i sort of know them and theyre in the lounge area... my gold mine is at ppl's parties... bars are also a good place... and girls do show signals u just gotta be quick enuff to catch them...and approach when u do see them or approach just for the hell of it, if shes not intrested well then u met a new person....and the approach has to do with nothing but confidence..also good posture eye contact and being loose and be urself! but that all has to do with confidence.. parks are pointless i used to be a park goer to as a youngster trust me theres no real socialization going on there cept for u and ur group of friends bu that gets boring... another good way is going places with friends of friends.. theyre always a sort of new person and once u get to know them better by going out one night as a group u might hit it off...

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy i dunno i very rarely pick up girls at night clubs....i wont even approach them unless i sort of know them and theyre in the lounge area... my gold mine is at ppl's parties... bars are also a good place... and girls do show signals u just gotta be quick enuff to catch them...and approach when u do see them or approach just for the hell of it, if shes not intrested well then u met a new person....and the approach has to do with nothing but confidence..also good posture eye contact and being loose and be urself! but that all has to do with confidence.. parks are pointless i used to be a park goer to as a youngster trust me theres no real socialization going on there cept for u and ur group of friends bu that gets boring... another good way is going places with friends of friends.. theyre always a sort of new person and once u get to know them better by going out one night as a group u might hit it off...

i agree. When i goto the park i just wanna relax and listen to music and be by myself.

Best places are parties and uni/college

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Originally posted by Tordan I think your biggest mistake is that you're trying to pick up girls at dance clubs where the music is just way too loud and the lounge areas are small. If you want a higher success rate go to a lounge where people just go to hang out n shoot the shit, not just dance. Basically any club where the lounge space is bigger than the dance floor is a good rule of thumb. Dress nice, no running shoes and wear a nice watch. If a girl likes you she'll let you know, they always do. It's all about body language. Last thing, don't go looking to pick up bcuz that'll just make you look desperate and women can see that a mile away. Btw, shouldn’t you be posting this in the chill out room?

Thanks for the help, im new to the forum so i didnt know where to post sorry

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Originally posted by KawalaBear Thanks for the help, im new to the forum so i didnt know where to post sorry

Sorry, I didn't mean it in a bad way. Just meant that you would get more responses in the chill out room.

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first things first....you need a cool ass belt buckle like me...



secondly always go up to a girl
that you might like. Waiting for her to talk to you is wasting time. Most girls find confidence attractive, so don't be apprehensive, which I can kinda tell you are by the way you post....I could be totally wrong though.

So I say if you can get over the tough act of approaching any girl (I am still working on it) then I say you are good, adn by pure probability you will find a girl ya like.

hope this helped.

i've given up trying to figure out this and that. i chill with my boys (and girls) and enjoy the music, and the night can never go wrong.

all i ever hear about myself from girls is that i'm so this, so that, but i don't see it, whatever, but the compliments make me smile. however, they never help me meet girls. i'm told i intimidate others, maybe because of my size and style. eh...i guess i do fine for the most part. maybe it's because all i really need in my life is music to make me happy.

my only advice is, keep a smile on your face, and look approachable. if girls are too shy to approach you, this image of yourself will at least let them know that you won't bite their head off if they smile at you, make eye contact, or even say hi when you cross each other's path.

if you look at her on three or more occasions and eye contact is made in each, say hi. it's no coincidence that the two of you were looking into each other's eyes three+ times.

plus, most girl like men who are confident. though i don't like to come off as a playa/pimp, so i'll just chill. after all, i've got music.

I usually have an insanely hard time when it comes to talking to women at a club or in similar circumstances. (Even if they smile at me, it's like I can't smile on command, it has to happen naturally even if I think the girl is really cute). It's bizarre. All I know is just fight the urge to do nothing and approach the girl, this is what I am trying to do...I figure a simple "Hi, what's up?" and strike up a convo about the club they're at, music etc. Who knows, might work, might not. If it doesn't, no big loss, continue to do your own thing.

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