quick answer: YES.

long answer: fucking hell, of course it's wrong. first off, if it's your ex, get over her and move on with your life. second of all, relationships cannot survive without trust and a certain level of privacy. if you can't give someone that level of trust and privacy (whether you're an insecure guy or she's a lying hoe), then you shouldn't be with them.

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Yes its wrong but I have been guilty of it.

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well i used to trust her, she never trusted me, im trying to get over her but its hard when she calls me emails and text messages me telling me she loves me and shit. i dont answer the phone i've told her to just leave me alone but its tough especially in my situation

lol paranoia...

just think of it this way... would you want someone to check your mail behind your back?.... no right...problem solved!

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Cut the biatch off!

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"Friendship often ends in love; but love in friendship - never." -Charles Caleb Colton

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Originally posted by samiotis try to check you ex's e-mail? even though i dont know her pass i'd love to check it, because i know she's been talking to this guy she met. even before we broke up.

unfortunately I've done it.

Man the things I've discovered...


(wasn't really my ex yet btw)

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Het doel van een heel deel hier is niet over muziek te praten maar door zijn deelname aan discussies een zo groot mogelijk intellect proberen aan de dag te leggen en daarmee een rare vorm van zelfbevrediging in werking stellen. 'It's a strange world'

no you definitely should not try to check their email, vm, or anything else. get her out of your life. have her blocked on your cell if necessary, add her to you junk email list. you can block her out of your life if you really try.

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Originally posted by samiotis well i used to trust her, she never trusted me, im trying to get over her but its hard when she calls me emails and text messages me telling me she loves me and shit. i dont answer the phone i've told her to just leave me alone but its tough especially in my situation

so why do you want to check her e-mail? to read the things she's been writing to some other guy? trust me, it won't make you feel any better. your first priority should be getting her out of your life and off of your mind. trust is a HUGE part of relationships and if the 2 of you couldn't find a way to trust each other then you're both better off without each other.

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Originally posted by lücid so why do you want to check her e-mail? to read the things she's been writing to some other guy? trust me, it won't make you feel any better. your first priority should be getting her out of your life and off of your mind. trust is a HUGE part of relationships and if the 2 of you couldn't find a way to trust each other then you're both better off without each other.

Actually yeah, it's better not to do it because it will only make you feel 10x worse... Just know that she's not thrustworthy and leave it by that.

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Het doel van een heel deel hier is niet over muziek te praten maar door zijn deelname aan discussies een zo groot mogelijk intellect proberen aan de dag te leggen en daarmee een rare vorm van zelfbevrediging in werking stellen. 'It's a strange world'

ive already blocked her off my emails aim msn etc. im trying as hard as i can to get her out of my life. i made the mistake of giving her my new cell number. i had her old email address and i found nothing to be worried about there. but she has a new yahoo one which i wouldnt mind checking. she would always check my cell phone when she came over, and would check whos on my aim list and shit like that. it didnt bother me at all

i dont know if shes not trustworthy she has told me everything shes done, but i just feel like shes hiding stuff, i guess its just the position im in that sucks

Check the inbox already and get over with it.

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