how important is it that your partner shares the same religious beliefs as you?
if you have kids what religion will they grow up under if the mother and father dont share the same beliefs?
May-13-2005 22:23
Yan
fauxhawk
Registered: Jul 2003
Location: Wano
The kid will be Jewish. Don't care if the mother is, however.
May-13-2005 22:25
Photo_bot_2k1
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Registered: Jan 2002
Location: Berkeley,CA
Make the kid choose his own third religion.
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May-13-2005 22:25
Floorfiller
Girl + Sweater = Hotness
Registered: Apr 2002
Location: Illegal Pete's
i'm not religious and i suppose my wife won't be either so we'll probably have little bastard sinners or something...
May-13-2005 22:27
nchs09
Traceaddict in training
Registered: Sep 2003
Location: Inside your mum
i dont have a religion... so doesnt bother me... now if i have to choose a religion due to my partner...
i doubt i would.. since belivnig somthing i do not belive in... it would be pointless and a lie.. i would not bother
which would suck if it happend with someone i loved
May-13-2005 22:28
Orbax
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Apr 2002
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basically, morality is the key, BUT I think it would bother me thinking in a way, that the person I was with didnt have a communion with God. Id probably try to convert her a lot.
May-13-2005 22:48
Krypton
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Registered: Nov 2003
Location: Texas
i know in christianity, the bible says, "A pure spirit cannot become one with an impure one. You are unequally yoked." nutshell- christains arent supposed to marry outside of their religion. it is the same in other cultures and religions, and not in others.
but it makes sense. why be with someone who has opposing beliefs. youde be at each others backs all the time.
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May-13-2005 22:48
Floorfiller
Girl + Sweater = Hotness
Registered: Apr 2002
Location: Illegal Pete's
quote:
Originally posted by Orbax
basically, morality is the key, BUT I think it would bother me thinking in a way, that the person I was with didnt have a communion with God. Id probably try to convert her a lot.
ultimately i agree with you right there. morality is the most important thing. if i met an amazing woman that didn't necessarily have the same beliefs that i do, i could still marry her...i just would either agree to disagree....
i'm not so confrontational that it would be a serious problem, unless she was the type of person that is really pushy with that sort of thing...in which case...i wouldn't be marrying her anyway for other reasons hehehe...
May-13-2005 22:53
Orbax
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Registered: Apr 2002
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it would mainly be some serious talks. I do them a lot anyway, even with people of the same faith, cuz I like trying to hammer down exactly how we feel we fit in with life, because connectedness is an important thing for happiness.
Im just pretty sure I could eventually win that one hehe, its been a large part of my life in study and in living and philosophy
May-13-2005 22:56
nchs09
Traceaddict in training
Registered: Sep 2003
Location: Inside your mum
quote:
Originally posted by Floorfiller
ultimately i agree with you right there. morality is the most important thing. if i met an amazing woman that didn't necessarily have the same beliefs that i do, i could still marry her...i just would either agree to disagree....
i'm not so confrontational that it would be a serious problem, unless she was the type of person that is really pushy with that sort of thing...in which case...i wouldn't be marrying her anyway for other reasons hehehe...
are u guys saying htat morality only comes hand by hand with religous belive?
May-13-2005 22:57
Floorfiller
Girl + Sweater = Hotness
Registered: Apr 2002
Location: Illegal Pete's
quote:
Originally posted by nchs09
are u guys saying htat morality only comes hand by hand with religous belive?
no actually the opposite. i think we're both saying that a person with a sense of morals...even if they didn't share a common religion...is the most important thing...
May-13-2005 23:01
Floorfiller
Girl + Sweater = Hotness
Registered: Apr 2002
Location: Illegal Pete's
quote:
Originally posted by Orbax
it would mainly be some serious talks. I do them a lot anyway, even with people of the same faith, cuz I like trying to hammer down exactly how we feel we fit in with life, because connectedness is an important thing for happiness.
Im just pretty sure I could eventually win that one hehe, its been a large part of my life in study and in living and philosophy
i love the deep talks hehehe...my and i do that shit all the time...that's what happens when you're an inquisitive person hehehe...you try to rationalize the world
